Cheating a wife to her husband for reasons and consequences is fundamentally different from a man's betrayal. It is rarely a sudden accident and develops in several stages . Due to the fact that in society there is a stereotype about female monogamy, girls are taught to have sex only with their beloved man.
"The truth should be served politely, like a coat, and not thrown in the face like a wet rag." Mark Twain - Honey, let's make up. - Let's make up ?! Yes, we still have to swear and swear before we can make up! Quotes from life Whoever has never quarreled, let him get up, or let him throw a stone at me first, according to his mood.
Food is different. And these are not only buns and cheesecakes, but also everything that fills us from the inside. Something that gives a feeling of satiety, satisfaction, fullness, integrity, warmth. Of course, first of all it is Love.
To begin with, anecdote. The guy's trousers are not ironed. But he has no iron. He decides to borrow an iron from a neighbor. He goes to a neighbor and on the way reflects: "Now I will come and ask for an iron. The neighbor is a cultured woman, she will offer to come in and have tea.
When we are faced with the topic of death, we are scared ourselves: we worry, we fall into a stupor, we are aggressive towards fate / circumstances, or we ignore the fact of a person's death, showing both ourselves and others that “everything is fine”.
There are different ways to solve problems. The only question is which method is within the power of you personally. And in the quality of life that he provides you. We all feel bad at times. Stress at work, family conflicts, life disorder, loss of a loved one, midlife crisis, rethinking yourself and life in general.
"Keep it simple!" - every now and then the advisers teach: most often they are uninvited. They can be understood: the simpler you are, the more comfortable it is for them. You can respond to these calls, or you can allow yourself to be difficult and get multi-stage, multi-layered and multi-component pleasure out of life.
These are reflections not about a physical separation, but rather an emotional one, when everyone is alive and well, and something else has disappeared. My feelings and experiences, relationships, values. They are no more. And then I part not with people, but with my feelings that I lived next to them … I part with some of myself, with some of my part, my experiences that were … And it is very painful, because they are not return.
Emotional abuse is a method of communication that sets the sole goal of complete power and control over another person. Children in families and women are often subject to emotional abuse. At the same time, it is characteristic that in relation to a child aggression can be directed from both parents, and in relation to a woman - most often from a man.
There are people who choose to help others with their Life Path and their profession. True, they pretty soon understand, due to complete immersion in the process of helping their neighbor, that their initial motivations fail, do not always lead to positive changes and not in the quantities that they would like and that the "
I will make a reservation right away, this time I will write about those adults whose childhood was spent under the slogan: “Grow up as soon as possible; when you are little, you are inconvenient for us. " Those who, from childhood, had no right to children's pranks and joys, to their feelings and deeds, to those who had to be educated and polite from the cradle.
We noticed that in the same situation there are people who see the fulcrum and the positive, and there are those who see only the negative side of the situation. And there are those who have a unique ability - to see negativity everywhere and be sure to report (warn) others about it.
It is sometimes surprising how the work with the client takes on a metaphor, and therefore a well-perceptible meaning, in the last five minutes of the final session. This time it was a metaphor of wings - working with a psychologist for a client was like finding wings, wings that will help carry you out in times of crisis or cope with emotionally exciting experiences.
Author: Kumkov Alexander Source: www.prozhivoe.com We repeat our mistakes. With enviable regularity, we go along the trodden path of failures, over and over again plunging into different things of the same thing. And we are surprised … Why
She firmly shook her dark, perfectly styled hair and looked at me sternly through equally perfectly matched glasses . - I'm a perfectionist. “I would never have guessed,” I chuckled to myself, looking at her stylish skirt without a single wrinkle, fantastic blouse (business with a precisely dosed drop of femininity), tall heels and “invisible” makeup, which usually takes at least an hour in time.
Have you ever wondered how our psychotherapeutic activity would have turned upside down if we could meet with the progenitors of our direction, with those whose books we so eagerly read, which we heard about, watched on video? I, like many psychology students, during my studies, thought a lot about the question of what would happen if I could meet with the masters in my favorite field.
Finding support inside, you find that it turns out that this state was always available to you through a sensation in the body, which you can trust. This sensation is permeated with the ability to feel life and bring you into harmony with your nature.
I invite each reader to conduct a thought experiment. Imagine a family with a boy and a girl. Which of the children do you think parents will most often ask to take out the trash, and who will be asked to wash the dishes? I want to talk about how the expectations of others affect the life of each of us.
Affection requires a substitute. When you give up attachment, you feel bad. If you stop smoking, you start eating. You leave a person - you rush to all the hard in search of another. The banality "The cure for love - new love" is not about love at all, but about affection.
The area of intimacy and sexuality is filled with so many myths, dogmas and taboos that on the one hand, it will not interfere with the scientific, on the other hand, the human, adult look. Women often come to my sessions with inquiries on the topic of relationships, and in the process of work, one way or another, questions arise of dissatisfaction with their sex life.
"Pull yourself together" (for children from 5 years old, NL Kryazheva) The child is told: "As soon as you feel that you are worried, you want to hit someone, throw something, there is a very simple way to prove your strength:
Why are more people suffering from panic attacks, loneliness, depression, anxiety and fear? It seems to me that the answer to this question lies in the field of relationships, or rather, the violation of human relations with other people, the violation of contact in general with the outside world.
The terms professional and emotional burnout appeared in our lives not so long ago - about 45 years ago. Interest in this topic was due to technological processes of the 20th century, which increased the level of stress affecting humans.
Suffering is not a feeling, but a state that generates a chain of actions. And no matter how strange it may sound, suffering allows a person not to feel real and actual feelings. Suffering is reminiscent of the usual pain that I have been experiencing for a long time and have long known how to live with it.
- Mom, it's winter outside, and you have a child without a hat! He's going to get sick! - Boy, you can't talk to your mom like that! Almost all mothers have encountered such incorrect remarks. And, of course, such an appeal cannot but provoke a reciprocal aggression.
A trauma is an event that generates unusually strong or uncontrollable feelings, or the very crisis state of a person. In psychotherapy, there are 2 main types of trauma: 1 - chronic, or cumulative (acts and builds up invisibly over the years, starting from childhood), or, in other words, developmental trauma, childhood trauma;
There is a caste of men who are too strong to be weak. They live in a world of the strong, they know those whose names cannot be named, they conclude deals that mere mortals never dreamed of, they look seven years older than their age. They are quite for justice - they like to put things in order and put the bad guys in their place.
Parting is always unpleasant, even if it brings relief to both partners. Men and women, when parting with a partner, often think: what was the real reason for the separation, regardless of who initiated it. Difficulty arises if we cannot find a logical explanation for the reasons and motives for parting.
Passive-aggressive defense is present not only in men, but also in women, but in men it is more common. For modern women, an explicit, open form of aggression has become more characteristic. Implicit, hidden aggression is expressed in the absence of open initiative, in shifting responsibility onto others, in indecision, in creating a fog of uncertainty and ambiguity in relationships, in the frequent use of lies and empty apologies.
I notice how my little son treats himself well and what he produces. He likes his photos, videos, where he is fooling around, he really likes his jokes and pictures. I like the reflection in the mirror. This is how small children are. They accept and love themselves.
What is psychological compatibility? Psychological compatibility Is the ability to establish, maintain and maintain normal personal and business relationships for a long time, which would satisfy the basic needs of both partners, while their communication and interaction would be accompanied by positive emotions.
The author of the article: Maleichuk Gennady. Psychologist, Gestalt therapist. Skype: Gennady.maleychuk I think that many people remember Pushkin's fairy tale about the old man and the fish. Its plot is quite simple: an old fisherman caught a goldfish, which turned out to be magical.
Honestly, I was not going to return to the topic of fitness, bodily beauty, abs and pumped up buttocks, this is absolutely not my topic. And she would not, if it were not for the girl Katerina, who wrote that she personally is going to win in the fight for men, and men, as everyone knows, love slender, fit and with elastic buttocks.
There will be no advice or recommendations here, there will be no conclusions or detailed explanations of the reasons. This is a simple description of observations, first of all for myself, but also for those with whom I interact both in a professional context and in everyday life.
"Do not think that I came to bring peace to the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword; For I came to set a man apart from his father, and a daughter with her mother, and a daughter-in-law with her mother-in-law. And a man's enemies are his household"
In early childhood, an almost complete fusion with the mother is necessary for the child in order to survive. “The sense of security that comes from this symbiosis helps him to grow, mature and gradually start an independent life. But if there was no such closeness, the desire to merge with the mother, to feel her unconditional love may remain the most important, the main thing.
What should I do with my own life? the man asks. My life is like a favorite book. In the beginning, I opened it and the whole world was revealed to me. One discovery followed another. How much wisdom, how much practical advice, how many opportunities she gave me.
Lecture by Alfried Langle, Doctor of Medicine and Psychology, on the practical use of existential analysis to gain an inner core, confidence, and meaningful existence. “Life is nothing life is an opportunity to do something " V.
If you internally believe that such a strategy is the best and even advise it to others (they say, come on, be good!), Then urgently read everything that will be written below. After all, right now and all these minutes and years that you have lived, you have been destroying your life and your relationships with people with this attitude.
Author: E. Fedorenko The archetype of Beauty is the key on the path of female individuation, and the formation of a woman is viewed through a series of transformations triggered by this archetype. In all the variety of female mythological, fairy-tale and biblical subjects, certain common points can be distinguished - the levels of transformation are the main ideas of the female Path - the Fall, Sacrifice and Love.
A perfectionist is every employer's dream. It is they who do not know how to tinker, work for wear and tear and achieve the most significant results. They are envied and equal to them. And what is the life of the perfectionist himself - a person whose whole life is subordinated to the attitude “either ideal, or not at all”?
Cold. In front of me is a cup. I pour boiling water into it, stir it. I sit down in a chair and take a slow sip. Warmly. A client sits across from me. She's cold. She takes her cup of tea and looks down and takes the first sip. Swallows hot liquid greedily.
Quite often they hear in their address the phrase "you are a psychologist …" and this is usually followed by many variations on the topic of what a "real psychologist" should do and not do. For example: -You are a psychologist, advise … (and then the story goes for 40 minutes, with details of the life circumstances of the person who met you at the moment somewhere on the street or in the entrance.
It is not autumn now, but the leaves are still falling. Sometimes its obsolete bark also falls off. I want to share with you the experience of my own observations, observations of myself. More precisely, behind the mechanisms that are now limp:
For me, the essence of psychosomatics is self-violence. And the degree of its malignancy and destructiveness correlate with the degree of self-abuse. I continue to share my professional findings by publishing therapeutic notes. This time I am writing about the phenomenon of self-violence.
In most cases, people start and continue to drink alcohol for the sake of affecting their emotions. Alcohol, by virtue of its chemical action, is a powerful emotional regulator. Here are just a few of the "emotional effects" that it can bring:
Battle of Borodino. French army. - Why aren't the cannons firing? - The gunpowder is out, Mr. General! Battle of Borodino. Russian army. - Why aren't the cannons firing? - Mr. General! Let's start with the fact that my mother never loved me … Historical anecdote They say that most of our problems come from childhood.
Author: Vladimir Georgievich Romek, PhD in Psychology, Head of the Department of Applied Psychology, South Russian University for the Humanities. The system of education and upbringing is often guided by the techniques of "negative reinforcement"
Nobody gets to know me. All my girlfriends are approached by men, but never by me. Am I that ugly? What to do about it? Nobody meets me You wait, you wait for this prince, but he does not appear in any way. All eyes overlooked. I have already been to nightclubs, and at dance evenings, and on dating sites, and in the smoking room of the Lenin library.
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