2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
If suddenly you have a lot of fun and you are filled with happiness, and you do not care about anything at all, then perhaps everything is so. But … what if it's not quite right? How to understand when everything is really cool, and when it's just our invention, how to distinguish fun from pseudo-fun? I think. There are many ways to do this, and here are some of them.
1. Body. Psychosomatic manifestations can signal us that we are a little deluded in what we think and in what is actually happening. If, for example, you think that you made the right decision and that you know for sure that this decision is what you need and at the same time you have a severe headache (or something else), then you are a little jumped to conclusions. Chances are that you fooled yourself a little. Often, we do not pay attention to our bodily manifestations until they lead us into a zone of limitation, and then already, we forget about our previous decisions and go to the hospital. The result is self-deception and avoiding a real problem. Well, and a headache.
2. Projections. When we are having fun, and everyone around us is sad, what is this about? After all, it so happens that a person in an enthusiastic mood says that everyone around is so boring and that he cannot maintain this level of fun due to the lack of an appropriate environment around him. If we talk about the projections of this merry fellow, then one might think that no matter what people are really around us, we will still consider in them only what is close to us and will not pay attention to what is not important to us. In projection, we see ourselves in another. Therefore, if you are having a lot of fun, and suddenly it turns out that you are surrounded by not such cheerful and cheerful people as you, then think about why you yourself ended up here and why everyone around you is not like you. Maybe …..you are like that too ???
3. Intuition. If something seems to you, and you are not paranoid, most likely it does not seem to you. More precisely, your intuition, your subtle connection with the world, based on your experience and the experience of the collective unconscious, gives you “clues”. These clues, or, as it is also called, the sixth sense, tell us about our true needs and our true state. Here, of course, there is a separate topic for digression and discussion, but I will leave it and simplify it, write that intuition does not let us down. For example, you are going to go somewhere, and it seems that you have clearly and clearly stated everything to yourself, but something inside you gives you weak signals (if we cannot recognize them) that you should not go there, what is it? not really “come”, but perhaps “leave”.
In general, as you understand, there are other methods of finding out in what state you really are. The main thing in this in everything is the desire to understand oneself.
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