When We Get The Desire, But Something Is Wrong

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Many people know that desires tend to come true. That is why numerous marathons, seminars and trainings are held. We can quite easily learn how to correctly pave the way for the realization of the desired.

I will not talk about different techniques that are very successfully used in marathons and trainings. I want to talk about the desires themselves.

Sometimes it happens when we really want something, our desire to become larger than ourselves. It turns almost into the meaning of our whole life and we are ready for a lot for the sake of it. If the desire is "stronger" than ourselves, it is worth considering whether this is your desire. I come across in practice that our desires "increase" due to social pressure, the influence of parents or other close people, certain life circumstances, stereotypes, etc. In general, I said this: when our desires overwhelm us, we are not alone in them.

When the desire is “bigger” than us, it is very difficult for us to think over the small details. We want everything. And we get. But then it turns out that they seem to have gotten what they wanted, but there is something that is not entirely satisfactory. From the category "did not dream". We may not be quite ready for such nuances and are faced with the difficulty of accepting them.

Example 1

Since his school years, the young man dreamed of leaving for New York, finding a good job and working in his specialty. Everything went well, the goal was achieved. Euphoria and a lot of joy. However, over time, he began to notice how lonely in a huge city. Relatives are far away, you can fly to them a couple of times a year. When they arrive, he is at work most of the time. It doesn't quite work out with girls because of different ideas about relationships. There are friends, but they live their own lives. As a result, the young man began to understand that somewhere he was mistaken. Reflecting on the topic of moving to New York, he remembered that at the beginning of the journey he was ready to do anything for the sake of his dream. In addition, the desire itself was shaped by poor living conditions, a small town, fear of not being realized, examples of those who had already left abroad. And, of course, the picture that is shown to us all on television screens.

Example 2

A young girl met a guy. From the very first meeting, she wanted to give birth to a child from him. Has achieved what I wanted. But the relationship did not work out as a couple. She could not cope with the fact that the guy does not take responsibility for her and does not offer to marry. In addition, she found it very difficult to accept certain habits of her lover. And although the couple had feelings, attraction to each other, however, this did not correspond to what she wanted, and over time, the girl began to feel very bad. But her original desire was fulfilled. And she made every effort for this.

We are more than our desires. They are just some part of our life. You should strive for them, of course, but do not put them at the head of everything that you have. We are more than our thoughts, actions, manifestations. These are all our little parts. That is why it is very important to treat them lightly and calmly. If you cannot achieve something, do not be discouraged, because this is not your whole life. There are many different things in it, and at the moment you have a different period, perhaps for other desires. And sometimes life itself makes surprises for us. It is advisable not to let them pass and not to devalue them.

Always remember to let desires take their place. Then we ourselves do not become attached to them, and they are realized faster. And of course, the “side effects” are less painful for us.