Mistress, Save Our Family From Divorce

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Probably in the life of every woman, sooner or later, an affair with a married man happens. And it ends in most cases with the fact that after long tossing between two women, a man most often makes a choice in favor of his wife, no matter how old, fat, ugly and stupid she may seem to a competitor from the outside.

As a rule, a man does not abandon his front-line girlfriend and stays with her after his adventures with his mistress. And the mistress with a broken soul goes home.

Of course, it sometimes happens that a man leaves his wife, children and goes to his mistress. And even, perhaps, divorces the ex and marries new and fresh, young and beautiful. But! Dear women, who received such a prize in the form of a man who left his wife for you (mind you, not just leaving his wife on a lonely voyage, which characterizes a man more coolly), don't you really mind that once he has already done with his wife? Do you think that you will be safely blown away by this role of an abandoned wife? Of course you think! After all, you are special, amazing, unique, not like her - his ex. He will not dare to do with you as he did with her. And in general, she did everything to be abandoned. But you won't make her mistakes. You certainly won't act as stupid as she is. Yes, and he loves you so much, and therefore will never leave! Wait a minute!

But he once loved his wife and even gave birth to children with her. O! No! Do not believe that you never loved, that he was forcibly married on the fly. What kind of man is he who can be forcibly married to yourself !? No! Believe me, it is his personal choice to go with that woman to the registry office! Nobody had previously tortured him in dungeons in order to force him to marry. It was he who went there himself and put his signature next to hers. Do you think he won't do that to you?

But no! You're special. He can't do that to you. For your sake, he left his wife and children - he accomplished almost a feat!

But alas! Your hour will come too! And you will know the bitter taste of his surrogate loyalty and love. Look into reality without illusions: before you is a man who left his wife for you, because he met you, and not because he was fed up with everything and he, like a man, made the decision to leave and took responsibility for this decision completely. He has already done this once. And what will prevent him from doing this in the second and third? Why did your man live with the one he didn’t love until now? Aren't you worried that a man from his wife's warm bed quickly migrated to your bed? Oh yes! After all, he and his wife "have not had sex for a long time and they sleep in different rooms." And do you believe in these tales? But as a psychologist, I hear different things here in my office.

Women, think carefully, what prevented a man when he realized that he did not like his wife to leave her, without waiting for the mistress to appear? And in fact he became a jumping "chocolate hare": jumping-jumping from one bed to another, from one milk breast to another. Only an immature "childish" man is capable of this, and only an immature "childish" woman needs such a thing - I'm talking about both of them now - about his wife and about his mistress. He does not take responsibility for the relationship with any of the women, with none of them he is unable to be close, emotionally attached, creating a painful, painful situation of competition between two women. He is full of aggression towards both women, towards the world of women, because such a man is not separated from his mother and an attempt to leave his wife and go to another is an attempt to separate from his mother and leave her for a girl. In fact, this is a teenage riot directed at his mother. He could not show his aggressiveness in relations with her and is trying to play it out on women in this way. After all, he hurts both of them. Is not it?

And he is not able to go out on his own into a lonely life from a relationship with his wife, because he is afraid. It is banal that he is scared alone and he feels guilty and ashamed. Therefore, he makes an Olympic jump into bed with his mistress, in order to share the responsibility and guilt with her for leaving his wife and children. “I took you away from the family! Destroyed the family! - they will then say about the mistress. He is not guilty and responsible, and then you will find yourself guilty before his wife, children and society, that, like a calf on a chain, took the man to your stall.

But will you be happy from it? After all, you will think all your life that there will be another one that will take your calf on a leash to her stall. He came into your life with a big dubious trail: not getting rid of the relationship there, not completing it, he was carried away by you. And worst of all, you do not know what to expect from such a man, unless of course you are wearing tight pink glasses. As he came to you, he can just as well leave for another or return to his wife. And more often than not, it turns out that way. And you, poor lover, are left behind, exhausted by his throwings, lies and your own illusions.

Do you know what happens in his family afterwards, after he “pumped up” your energy and returned to his wife? He again has a new round of love with his wife due to the breakup or the threat of breaking the marriage, which you are. They have refreshed feelings, they, like crazy, remember their youth and they have violent sex. And thank you, mistress, you helped them with your energy to again feel the value of each other. So that you do not even doubt: at first they cry together, he asks for forgiveness, at first she does not forgive him, then she will forgive him, but from time to time she will remember the betrayal. And he will constantly inform her that you are a complete misunderstanding, “something has found”. While you cry and lick your wounds, the couple will go on their second honeymoon. And what is all this for you?

Dear women, remember: the main defect of a man is the presence of a wife or an unfinished relationship with her. You are at great risk here with your destiny. And experience tells us that everything comes back: just as you deal with the world of women, so the world of women will do with you. And the man who runs back and forth is not a man, but just a teenager. So why do you need this "happiness"? Why bother with someone else's, and what is more, a defective one? Yes, leave this happiness to your wife, so as not to become unhappy herself.

And for men, advice: Be "adult men" and not "childish men." End your relationship with your wife before going to another, be honest and responsible. Live alone for a while to make sure you don't jump from bump to bump. Better yet, sort it out with your mom, men, because this behavior speaks of disruptions in your development and relationships with the world of women.

Three words for wives who have experienced cheating: Cheating is prepared by two! No no. The mistress has nothing to do with it. She's just a tool. The authors of treason are full-fledged and equal - husband and wife.

Everything!