LECTURE BACKGROUND ABOUT SYMPTOMS AND HOW THE "FEMALE DISEASES" ARISE

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Psychosomatics translated from Latin is psycho-soul, soma-body, which means the interaction of soul and body.

Everything that the soul has not "digested" (feelings, sensations) is reflected and imprinted in our body. Every feeling is reflected in the body. We may no longer remember the event, but the body will remember and manifest itself as tension.

In medicine, it is customary to fight and fight against diseases - to treat, remove, cut, launch, etc., without paying attention to the psychological component. It turns out that if we approach the symptoms (I will call diseases that way and further in the text) only from the medical side - we are fighting with our body, i.e. with you, because the symptom that we have does not arise just like that - it is always the interaction of the Soul and Body. How it works, I told on the example with lemon).

I consider any symptom as a friend and helper, which shows us that something is going wrong, that something is wrong in our life - it's like a dashboard in a car, which shows that soon, for example, gasoline will run out and need to be refilled tank. And the wording “Why am I sick” or “Why is this happening to me” should be changed to the question “Why do I need this symptom? What does my body want to tell me?"

With this formulation, we take responsibility for our symptom upon ourselves, and in this case, we can somehow "manage" our disease, for example, begin to consciously recover, or accept secondary benefits and deliberately refuse treatment, or recover, and receive secondary benefits in other ways and interactions.

We will not consider secondary benefits now, I will just say that secondary benefits are what I get when I get sick and that, without understanding, satisfaction or rejection of which, it is difficult to recover.

In the context of "female diseases", I present a clipping of the text to understand how the formation of "female symptoms" from "Practical interactive lectures" occurs: Psychosomatics of "Female diseases"

“….. On the Internet, you can find a lot of information about the fact that if my ear hurts, it means that I don’t want to hear something, and if I have constipation, it means that I don’t want to part with the past and adapt to the new circumstances of life.

Perhaps, for someone, it will happen, but maybe not.

I am rather close to the idea that each person is unique. And each individual disposes of his body and his diseases wherever he pleases and gets sick in those places in which he “wants”. Not on purpose, not consciously - by accident.

And since there are no accidents, at least I don’t believe in them, sometimes we get sick in “women's places”. Moreover, the word "Women" is also not accidental. This is one of the important places that distinguishes us from men, which, for a while, becomes the safest house for ourselves and the continuators of our family.

And like “Women's place”, we all have the same women (well, there are of course some differences), and they perform similar functions, but we still get sick, in different ways, and do not get sick either. Let me explain why.

It's no secret that the uterus matures and forms before adolescence. This is approximately 11-15 years.

At the age of 11-15, when the psyche has long been formed. When the life scenario has already been written (up to about 5-6 years), 4 (!) Crisis periods have been lived, having lived up to the 5th. And how you lived all this time, how the crisis periods passed, what happened to you during this time and what you perfectly displaced - you cannot tell.

And that's exactly what makes us different from each other. Our life experience. And the way we lived it.

And here you are, for a certain number of years.

Naturally, you do not remember what happened to you in 1-2-3-4-5-6-7…. years old. (In stressful situations and psycho-traumatic events, the "symptom" can appear at any time). ….."

In conclusion, I would like to write that any psychosomatics is energy turned on oneself - restrained anger, irritation, resentment, in general, any, even positive emotions that were sent to another person (event) were stopped and withheld. From this it follows that it is important to live and direct feelings and emotions to the addressee (but since this can be unsafe, it is advisable to consciously choose not to express them or look for other safe ways to react or express them).

I end with my favorite quote about responsibility:

“It’s not what was made of me important, but what I myself do with what was made of me.”