2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In my previous articles, I talked about what longing for an ex is, why it appears, what it leads to and what to do with this joy. But there are complicated cases: a person now and then reminds of himself, and you think: "Oh, what if this is love?" Maybe love. And maybe something else.
The word "ping" is often used by pickupers, that is, men who study the science of seducing women (and, of course, practice it). It's also a term that IT people use when they talk about checking a connection. And in relation to the former, this meaning of the word "ping" could not be more appropriate. After all, what does a person who is trying to get in touch with us do with it? That's right, checks to see if there is still a connection. For what purposes? Well, for example:
- you broke up, and a new passion or life without you turned out to be not as good as it seemed at first glance;
- you broke up not the way you would like, and the former partner has a desire to “replay the final”;
- you gave a person some kind of resource (admiration, sex, love, even fear or disgust are suitable for some people), but now he is deprived of it and wants a little more (or a lot) of this resource;
- the former partner is pleased to know that you still love him; if he receives evidence of this in response, this will feed his ego (the point is similar to the previous one, but so widespread that it requires a separate mention);
- the person plans to transfer you to the category of friends;
- the person is simply bored.
Well, yes, there is still a case when it really is love. However - let's be cynical, but realistic - this item is so rare that you even involuntarily get upset. Nevertheless, almost everyone expects that this is his case. Yes, hope, like the song, "helps us build and live." But you still need to be aware that in many cases a person makes himself felt not for the sake of love, but in order to "check the connection" - and to understand whether it is possible to get something else from you.
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