2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
1. Infantile behavior develops and forms in a child.
2. Young people do not know and do not understand how to build partnerships and, as a result, fear of real relationships - preference is given to virtual relationships.
3. A problematic type of attachment is formed.
4. Body, sexual health, sexuality remain sealed. Or a negative attitude towards sex is formed.
5. Helplessness, self-doubt, fears, phobias become stronger and a person is afraid to socialize.
6. Irresponsible behavior of children themselves and guardianship of parents provoke various addictions and contribute to their occurrence.
7. The world is lent to the size of an apartment, or even a room - a young man lacks social connections, acquaintances, communication skills, career growth, professional development and experience of love.
Cons of living with children
1. Being in merging with the child and the illusion "There is still time for everything," the mother misses the opportunity to develop, live her own full life, build a professional career, meet with friends and men, have sex, hobbies, sports, travel, culturally enlightened for her pleasure and make new acquaintances.
2. The overprotective greatly increases the mother's self-esteem - she decides and settles everything herself, she has everything under control, she manages everywhere, does everything for everyone … "Who's a great? I'm a great!", And then "I can't do it anymore! I'm tired! Everything is tired! Everyone needs something from me!"
Reasons and Factors Affecting Successful Separation
On the part of the parents:
1. Fusion can often be observed between mother and child. The mother does not even have a thought that the child can feel differently and think differently.
The presence of the merger does not allow the mother to let the child go into adulthood.
Anxiety
An anxious mother is sure that the child should not be released alone into this world full of dangers. Such a mother sees her task and mission in protecting and protecting her child from all the misfortunes and dangers of the world. Such a mother unwittingly passes on her anxiety to the child through life, and then he is afraid to fly out of the family nest, even if the right to privacy suffers from this.
Parental lack of fulfillment
When a mother has a cool or bad relationship with her husband, she does not have her own interests and hobbies, an uninteresting job, she sees her meaning in life in the child - the mother has a fear that if the child goes into adulthood, then her life will lose its meaning, she will stop feeling yourself important, in demand, significant.
Parental self-doubt
An insecure woman believes that she should take place in a mother's role and be at least a good mother. The main criterion for a good mother for such women is whether the child is happy, whether he is happy, whether the relationship between the child and the mother is good.
Fear of losing control
The mother's desire and thirst to still feel her power and control everything unconsciously pushes her to do everything so that the child does not become independent.
Fear of disappointment
Fear that children will not become what their parents would like to see them (famous musicians, athletes, artists, scientists, businessmen, etc.). And in order not to be disappointed in the child, the parents begin to control him, trying to impose their point of view on him.
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