2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
For most people, the problem with love is being loved.
This means that the essence of the problem lies in the desire to be loved - to arouse a feeling of love for oneself in various ways, to attract the attention of the other half, to "fall in love" with oneself.
However, the difficulty lies in loving oneself, or rather, in being capable and having the desire to love.
🧡 The attitude to love as an accident, luck is based on the point of view that this is a problem of finding an “object” for love, and not a problem of the ability to love.
People think that loving is easy, but finding a person to love or being loved by them is difficult.
Then people are looking for a profitable party: a person must be desirable from the point of view of social value and at the same time must want me himself, taking into account my hidden and obvious merits.
Two people fall in love when they feel that they have found in each other the best match of physical qualities, religious views, properties, living conditions and characteristics, comparing their own merits with this.
💛 The belief that nothing is easier than loving continues to prevail despite its obvious fallacy.
Love begins with great hopes and expectations, yet it so often fails. People wait for her, dream, fantasize, watch countless films about happy and unhappy love stories, they listen to hundreds of love songs, devote poems to her, but hardly anyone really realizes the need to be able to love and learn love, to comprehend the essence and causes of human relationships.
💜 Confusing the concepts of love and being in love. Feelings of love are different from physical attraction, blind passion, waves of excitement, or obsession with thoughts of a loved one.
Love involves a much wider range of feelings and duration of relationships between people.
💙 Despite the inherent need for a person to love and be loved, still more important than love remain for him success, prestige, money, power - and almost all energy is used to achieve them.
Perhaps, only that which gives tangible benefit is considered a worthy occupation, while love that only the soul needs is a luxury in modern life? So be it. Yet scientists, artists, poets, and knights of all times continue to seek an answer to the question of why people have succeeded so little in comprehending the questions of love?
💝The ability for harmonious relationships, the ability to love openly, simply and mutually comes only in the process of personal changes.
This involves getting rid of clamps, fears, beliefs, complexes by working on yourself:
- gaining new experience;
- self-knowledge;
- the ability to show your emotions
- allow yourself to be yourself and love without fear.
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