2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
We fell in love! Intrigue, romance and passion, warmth and tenderness, creativity, a lot of joy and anticipation of pleasure! Life is filled with meaning, blooms with all sorts of bright colors, hope for happiness wakes up! A sense of need and self-worth!
But, our love was rejected … It can be very difficult, just like that to take and stop loving. Pain, emptiness, loneliness, anger, longing, disappointment, despair and powerlessness. …Unrequited love. What for? Why? How to deal with it? Does it have any meaning? If there is no reciprocity, then whom do I continue to love? Someone in your head? This someone continues to evoke strong and very important feelings in me. Who is this? Maybe this someone is me?
“… You didn't need my love. Pain … How can I let you go? I tell myself that I do not care, and everything is long gone, that you are indifferent to me and I have no feelings for you. But when I see you - I understand that this is a lie. And I hate you! Because you turned your back on me and erased me from your life. You killed me! I don't know how I can forgive you! This is not forgiven. You just left and didn't explain anything. And that's all … and there is no you … and there is no me …
Tell me, how can I forget you? I remember your eyes. They are in my soul. Your gaze … a little confused, it beckoned me and penetrated right into my heart. There was something dear to you. It was as if I was looking into the depths of your soul … or mine … now I can't make out.
You helped me see the other me. You saw her first. But I have not yet had time to get a good look at everything. And now, as if, without you, I cannot do it. When you look, you see me! Such as I AM. Not only good and correct. Different. In general, there is no good or bad, there is simply I: real, alive, feeling and imperfect. And you saw me like that and woke me up. Revived me for life. And so I wanted to extend this time even more. I need YOU as part of me! An unknown and desired part of me.
I exist when I forget about you. When I remember, I lose myself. It's like I can see and feel again the emptiness that you filled. And now it's just a hole. And all my powers and meanings go into it. They turn out to be completely unimportant and far-fetched when I think of you. Something important is gone with you, and I have to find it! Through thick and thin.
I don't know who I love anymore. You or your image? Who were you to me? You were a mirror in which you look and see yourself. You see that part, hidden and unconscious, which is so lacking for a full life. Not enough to breathe deeply. To breathe in, spread your arms to the sides and shout to the whole world: "I am!" And it's happiness to be yourself! Feel and know all of yourself. In you was what I so want for myself. And, probably, this is already in me. And I understand what to look for!
Only now can I forgive and let you go … and thank you! For the most important meeting in Life, a meeting with YOURSELF …"
Jung said that the Soul has no sex, it is whole. But, since we are born as men or women, one part of the psyche, corresponding to the sex, is activated, and the second remains in the depth: unmanifested and unworked. This part is revealed through relationships with the opposite sex. The emerging interest and sympathy provide a certain duration of contact, and hence the possibility of research.
If you shift the emphasis from a person to whom feelings have flared up, to the very beautiful feelings that arise next to him or at the thought of him, then this can become very valuable information about our hidden part of the personality, which breaks out and also wants to be manifested and satisfied. …
Unrequited love is always a relationship with oneself. And this is a huge resource for internal changes, new discoveries and a possible step towards a fuller and more high-quality life!
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