Why Does A Successful Woman Need A Man?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Why does a successful woman need a man? There is only one answer - for love. Yes, it sounds so simple, but not so simple in life. For a love that does not limit, does not force, does not oppress or subjugate. For love that respects, preserves the inner and physical space of the other, which develops and supports. It is mutual concern, support, acceptance and recognition of value. This is sex, which with love becomes qualitatively completely different. There is no other reason to be together.

Perhaps this is adult love. When there is no ardent desire to possess, but there is a calm desire to be in order for oneself and to bring joy to another. You feel good, tasty, comfortable, interesting alone, but the two of you become more colors, and the sensations are brighter.

Moreover, I again agreed with the idea that true love is possible only between self-sufficient people. When you do not need to solve your problems at someone else's expense, you can feel and appreciate the person himself. And this desire is not frenzied, but even. It will happen, it will happen. No means no.

So, "Why does an accomplished woman need a man?"

I remember once reading an article where one man popularly explained why successful men over forty do not need a permanent relationship. Say, there is enough money to have someone to do homework: cook, wash, iron, clean the house, etc. You can always find someone to go out with, and there will be more than one option. If we talk about the benefits of regular sex in a permanent relationship, then, firstly, for a mature man this issue is not so relevant, and secondly, if you are successful, then having sex is not a problem at all. In addition, a mature man, in addition to work itself, is full of hobbies and various activities: hunting, basketball (football, volleyball, etc.), a sauna with friends, traveling, fishing, etc. And no time limit! Nobody burdens you with the fact that you owe something to someone: arrive on time, do not forget to give it, drop in somewhere “on the way”, think, take care, etc. And in the comments, the people tried to convince that it was good, they say, a dear soul is near, that a person did not meet true love, and therefore he is trying to decompose his existence into components.

The last few days, I also think … And I can't find the reasons … Why does a woman need a man?

Let's immediately discard the arguments “from time immemorial” and “nature laid down”. We're talking here and now about the present tense, ok?

So … Shared life. Honestly? A man's life together only burdens. It is not the man who burdens him, but he burdens himself. And scattered socks are generally a trifle. In a man, what is usually laid down by his mother? You must be looked after. And I, being an independent, separate person, cannot in any way understand with what joy. With what joy do I look after the cleanliness of my clothes, the satiety and grooming of an adult like myself? He won't follow mine, will he? If I have a need to take care of someone, then this need is more than compensated for by children and animals. So caring for another adult is only on the conditions: you - to me, I - to you.

I will say more, at the sweet age of forty, there is a need to take care of you too. I'm already close to inviting a housekeeper to cook and clean myself, and not aggravate my existence with obligatory breakfast-lunch-dinner with the emergence of a serious relationship. So to me or me to yourself - only in order to make my life easier, and not hang yourself on me.

Next moment. It is generally accepted that a man must provide where and for what the family lives. And if you handled it yourself? And, in general, you continue to cope with it normally? There is an apartment. Repairs done. Even worries on occasions: "who will nail the nail and hang the mirror?", "Who will connect the washing machine?" It turns out to be quite successfully solved by specially trained people. And yes, now I do not know any work that cannot be done for money. Without any favors, repairs are made for money at the service station and for the money they organize a technical inspection.

Tell me, what about the support? We swam, we know. The man is weak, psychologically not resistant - and strives to jump off. Women are more reliable to support. Visit the hospital. To lend money. Have a beer in the evening. Speak out under the cards in a cafe. Heart-to-heart conversations are generally best done with women. Well, you get the idea.

Oh yes, important! Sex. The same situation as for men. No problem. Moreover, the options are from 22 years old to … Well, this is already a matter of taste. The presence of a serious relationship seems to promise regular and high-quality, but in practice it is far from guaranteed. For men, after all, the same corrals happen as for women: “tired”, “troubles at work,” “not at all,” “nuuuu, if you stir me up” (this is generally fu-fu-fu!). The disadvantage of habitual sex is that when a man examines a woman's body, he becomes even more primitive (a man, in the sense) than he really is: he pressed this button, then stroked it. The entire prelude is five minutes, the act itself is three. So let me disagree: the newcomers are trying!)))

Further not so important, but interesting. I watch the series, I watch TNT, I watch the Comedy Club. And I think … Happiness. It is fortunate that no one grabs the remote control and starts looking for news on all TV channels. It's fortunate that no one tells me that only stupid women watch TV shows. Happiness that no one pulls me at all in the evening. Happiness that I can pour myself a glass of wine. Or a glass of brandy. And no one will say with a reproach: "You are not getting drunk?". Happiness that I can drink coffee at 11 pm and not listen to: "Can you sleep later?" The happiness is that I myself can decide whether I can sleep or not. It is fortunate that I can watch 16 episodes of the series I like in one day, and no one can stand my brain about this. Happiness is that I do what I want, I work the way and the way I want. Nobody looks over my shoulder when I write, and does not comment: "Some kind of dregs!" or "You are texting with the men again!" Nobody says about my clients: “What kind of fuckers come to you?”. And for sure, only I myself determine what kind of makeup suits me, what I wear, what color to dye my hair and, in general, how long my hair should be.

In general, I am satisfied. I am happy with what I have. I love. For this I have a little boy and a big girl. Mom, sister, my godchildren. My dear friends.

There is a lot more that you want. Thai boxing, Osho dynamic meditations, salsa, tango, travel, outlandish cuisines of the world, the same decorations, movies and art, sophisticated authors and new books, beauty care, English and Chinese, and … Be yourself, helping people.

Well, tell me at least one reason - why does an accomplished woman need a man?