2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
When another persistent trainer or coach knocked on my friend, promising to turn my picture of the world upside down in a few sessions / trainings and lead me to the pinnacle of success, I was silent. When I was sent regular invitations to merciless women's trainings, which help to reveal all the facets of femininity, I was not indignant (almost), because to each his own. Having stumbled upon the next "fifteen points of what a woman should do to make a man successful," I could not restrain myself
Here's one of my favorites: "help him figure out what he wants to achieve." Not, of course, if these are role-playing games in which he is a student and you are a future teacher conducting vocational guidance, then chalk and a pointer will help you. "Cultivate persistence in achieving what you want. Remember to set new goals." I can just hear: no rum in a pub with friends, you are not reaching too hard yet! And I didn’t set goals for the next week, you are my favorite misfortune..
Or here. "You can remove a lot of worries from his shoulders by taking on the functions of a personal assistant, solving organizational issues." That's right, why really, you can't have your own affairs, only your husband's business is really business.
And a little more. "Do not forget to thank your husband for everything he does for you. Express your warm feelings for him." It is also correct: no dissatisfaction and criticism, all the more constructive, otherwise he will get upset and lose motivation for achievements, do you need it? So much work …
And here is the question: where does in the minds of an innumerable number of people this reinforced concrete confidence that a woman must do something for a man to be successful? It turns out that initially, by posing the question in this way and registering for such an event, a woman signs in absolute male helplessness without her saving participation.
In fairness, then there should be trainings for men, for example, the following: 15 points of what a man should do in order for a wife to become beautiful (or slim, or smart, dream up yourself). I can directly see how a man after the wedding begins to slip her magazines with instructions on smokey eyes, trends in manicure and a volume of London.
If a woman initially chooses a man without grandiose aspirations to conquer the world and universal recognition, why bother pretending that she needs a successful man? Or does she take it like a used and tired Pentium 2 computer, hoping to upgrade it to IOS 11.03? …
Because blaming your husband (who worked as a firefighter for 10 years at the time of their acquaintance) for not making the Forbs list in two years of your marriage, it’s somehow strange.. It's like blaming a porcupine for that it is prickly. Why, then, must reach for a porcupine when the need for gentle stroking can be satisfied with the purchase of a teddy bear? Do not say that this is all in the hope that over time his needles will fall out and in their place a soft and silky fur, like a cat's, will be pricked up.
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