Why Is A Husband Cheating On A Beautiful Wife?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Agree, there used to be a clear stereotype: "A lover is always younger and more beautiful than a wife." And this stereotype was fully based on the realities of life, that is, the way it was. But in recent years, such wives who have convicted their husbands of treason, who are very beautiful in themselves, have increasingly come to me for consultation! Often they were or are current, or former "beauty queens" of various universities, campaigns, cities, regions and even a country! They can be twenty-five and thirty and forty: they do not have excess weight, they have perfect figures, long legs, go to gyms, shake their lips, cheekbones and busts with silicone, inject botex, are well and expensively dressed, some even attend personal growth courses, may have decent positions and even their own business. Most have children, sometimes even two or three.

In general, it would seem that they have everything that should guarantee such wives a quiet family happiness and loyalty to their own husbands. However, what is their indignation when they not only find out the fact of betrayal of their husbands, but also the fact that they have sex with such women, whom well-groomed wives contemptuously call "gray necks", that is, with women of ordinary, ordinary and not outstanding appearance … Beautiful wives cry in my office and repeat over and over again: “Well, tell me what he found in her ?! She's no !!! Am I the same ?! How could he exchange me, so bright, for this gray office ?! And to spend a lot of money on it? To arrange romance for her in hotels? Carry with you on business trips and abroad? And in the end, and go to her ?! Where is the world heading ?! Are these men even crazy? I try for my husband, I go on diets, I look like candy, all the other men turn around on me on the street, offer to get acquainted, I know my worth! And at this time he is fucking with some creepy little creep? Which, apparently, blossomed only recently, when my husband started investing in it? And even then, it's still not a horse's forage! She is inferior to me in all respects! How to be and what to do? And most importantly, why is this happening ?!"

Frankly, at first even I was very surprised by what was happening. But thanks to the fact that I regularly have to communicate with those cheating husbands themselves who are the owners of very beautiful wives, the secret of this male behavior was quickly solved. The fault of all was the modern beauty industry itself, which formed in beauties a special philosophy and psychology of female behavior. The fact is that when an advertisement every ten minutes repeats from the TV screen something like “You deserve it”, “The whole world is a catwalk”, “Be gorgeous every second”, this leads to two dangerous consequences for beautiful women.

First, having entered the endless race for beauty, women quickly forget why they actually needed this beauty. They forget that this beauty was addressed to men. More precisely, for a successful marriage to a specific successful man and a happy marriage with him. Forgotten, from a certain point in time, beautiful wives cease to be guided by the tastes and preferences of their husband, and are guided by certain fashion standards, moreover, purely female, completely incomprehensible to men. As a result, many modern husbands, being successful and wealthy, tell me, as a psychologist: “I hate to look at these pumped-up cheekbones or stuffed tattoos, I don't need these extended hair or eyelashes, a changed nose, etc. This is no longer my wife, this is some kind of monster, some kind of dangerous evil bitch, she is a stranger to me! I'm afraid of her! I'm even afraid to offer her sex, she's so fashionable. I need my normal wife, beautiful, tender and soft and natural, who I want to stroke. And so I go out with her to public places, as with a sleek fighting rottweiler, who proudly looks at other dogs, and the owner is on the side. " I want to hug her, I want sex, but she is in a beauty salon, then she walks in glasses for a month after plastic surgery, then she makes her teeth for a year, then she feels bad on drying or some kind of super diet, etc. But here's a simple lover from my work, so natural, you can always cuddle and touch, enjoying just a woman, without chemistry and plastics. My wife is all in professional make-up of a may-cap, and here such charming and undisguised freckles … Eh.. This is such warmth … ".

It is interesting that in many families with very beautiful, but made wives, husbands directly asked their wives: “Stop, be yourself! I like us the way we are. But the wives did not hear them, because they were guided by the opinions of other women, not their husbands. In general, you get the idea.

Excessive female artificial beauty sometimes turns out to be

transparent ice wall that separates her from her husband.

The bleached Snow Queen sometimes loses to simple Alyonushka.

Secondly, reveling in their incredible beauty, wives suddenly begin to believe that an intimate life with a husband is possible when he deserves it in some special way: he takes him to a restaurant, makes an expensive gift, pours him compliments, etc. If this is not the case, then the wives do not show any sexual initiative of their own. Moreover, beautiful and dignified wives begin to shy away from having sex with their husbands even when they go on expensive overseas trips to the sea with him, staying on weekends without children, etc. They lie about sick heads, go to bed with children, watch TV shows until the husband falls asleep, etc. This is a dangerous path that destroys intimacy even in those families where, in principle, there are no other family problems.

The scheme, when the wife believes that the husband should beg for sex from her, leads to the fact that the wife begs the husband not to go to that other woman who does not need to be begged at all.

And all because beautiful wives begin to think that their husbands owe them more than they owe them to their husbands, who, as a rule, earn good money, are very tired and want to relax at home with their wife in the same bed, and not strain, begging for sex.

In this situation, much less beautiful, less spoiled and less proud (all this is at first) reliable lovers, simpletons, who (without thinking too much about polite and the rules of decency) can be invited to have sex anywhere and in any way, compare favorably with fashionable and hard-to-reach wives. Which, as it were, are, but in fact, there is only formally, since there is really no sex with them, or it happens very rarely, or not in the form that the husband wants, who creates comfortable financial conditions for his wife, but she cannot create comfortable sexual conditions for him.

Here I would like to remind the beautiful wives of successful husbands: Concrete successful husbands are supposed to be Specific, including in their intimate life.

Since they are supposed to find new alternative suppliers of loans, goods and services at their work, then sooner or later they will find alternative suppliers of sex, if there is no sex in their own family with a living beautiful wife.

I want to directly convey to the wives: “Men’s thinking is very practical and pragmatic, even somewhat mechanistic. If there is a wife, all the more beautiful, then there must be sex. There is no sex, so the wife does not fulfill her function. If I do not love her, then I will divorce her. If it is so difficult for her to live in a family that she has no time for sex, then I will simply unload her, so to speak, make her life easier by solving her sexual problems with other women. Those who need it and who have a desire for it. So to speak, out of love for his wife … And then out of “just sex” with his mistress, there will be logical love for his mistress. Then a divorce and a new family. Where a properly funded mistress, having become a wife, often repeats the mistakes of her predecessor to celebrate.

Hence, I directly say to those wives who make great efforts to be, become and remain beautiful: “Let your beauty have a practical application in an active sex life with your own husband! And the more often and more actively, the better. Otherwise, how men change from expensive cars to something simpler, when they really need to get to a place where limousines will not pass and it is a pity to damage them, so husbands will solve their sexual problems with someone else easier if you show them that you don't need that. Only this approach will protect you from those family tragedies that are happening now more and more often. And also from a blow to your female pride."

I hope I have clearly conveyed the problematic situation to you and the ways to resolve it. Be natural and sexy with your husband. If you want to be beautiful and unnatural, be twice as sexy with your husband. Otherwise, you will remain simply beautiful, and some much less luxurious woman will receive the authority for sexuality and the specific application of this in bed. Maybe less luxurious, but a woman! Which confirms this not by the length of the extended hair and the size of the same extended bust, but by her sexual behavior.