Does Your Wife Cheat? How Do You Know If Your Wife Is Cheating?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Does your wife cheat? Men by their genetics are prone to one-time and casual intimate relationships, for them the concepts of "sex" and "love" practically do not coincide, intersecting only when a man is in a state of love. In normal times, a man wants sex on a daily basis and has no need to fall in love or communicate all the time with the one with whom he has sex. For women, the situation in this matter is fundamentally different. Since for many millions of years of evolution, female primates have been unable to survive and raise children alone, for most women, the concepts of "sex" and "love" are the same. Indeed, in order to successfully realize sex in the form of subsequent childbearing and raising offspring, a woman needs a man not for one sexual intercourse, but for many years. And the fact that the 21st century is now in the yard and the level of social protection of women has become completely different does not change anything in the minds of women. Therefore, if the desire and willingness to have sex with almost the first person they meet on vacation, in a club or a business trip, or who answered on the dating site is typical for most men at any time (even if there is a wife and mistress), then for women this is typical only then:

• - when a woman has descended as a person, is an explicit or hidden alcoholic or drug addict;
• - when a woman occupies a high social post, has a high level of material security, does not have the need to create a serious relationship with a man, but once in her youth she was so much offended by men that she wants to take revenge on them, treating them also as a consumer (as I say in joke - consumer), as they once did to her;
• - when a woman has certain (fortunately - small), mental disorders, outwardly expressed in excessive conflict, scandalousness and a desire to dominate (this is often combined with the paragraph above);
• - when a woman has a very long break in her intimate life and her behavior is no longer controlled by herself, but by female sex hormones;
• - when a woman builds a career and moves through life in all ways that she has, including by establishing an intimate relationship with all those men who may be useful for this;
• - when a woman is fundamentally dissatisfied with the existing man and is in a conscious search for a new lover, sponsor or husband. In this case, her violent sexual activity is nothing more than the acceptance of the male rules of the game, because without having sex, most men end the relationship.

Since there are not so many women in the above categories, fortunately for society, most cheating wives go to regular sex with another man because they obviously like this man, because they fell in love with him and in the depths of their souls (no matter how stated aloud) are considering him as their new husband. It is the obvious inspiration of most cheating wives that allows husbands to quickly notice the appearance of a lover. Of course, in the event that the husband shows even a little care.

To calculate the appearance of a permanent lover in a wife, there are at least about twenty-three clear diagnostic signs. Here they are:

Twenty-three signs that a wife has a lover (whether the wife is cheating).

1. A woman, who had not been particularly active before, begins to literally "fly": in her hands everything is arguing, her face brightens, her smile does not leave her face. At the same time, a woman can be very unsettled, withdraw into herself, answer her husband's questions inappropriately. Because at this time she mentally changes her life for the better: she gets married, gives birth to children from her new husband, changes her place of residence, leaves for a resort, etc.

1. The wife begins to pay increased attention to her appearance: she loses weight, begins to play sports, decisively renews her wardrobe by acquiring brighter and more fitted clothes, begins to wear mini, lace, fur, grows her hair, regularly twists it or straightens it. According to the husbands who suffered from the wife's infidelities, a particularly striking sign is that if a woman starts washing her hair every day, regularly does depilation, gives herself Botox injections, makes herself silicone lips, cheekbones and breasts, acquires expensive underwear, and starts taking pictures of herself on her phone. For a husband, this is usually covered up either by the need to correspond to his new position or job, as well as health concerns. Therefore, naive husbands believe.
2. The wife by hook or by crook begins to shy away from family sex. And (I emphasize) - while she herself outwardly blooms. If usually the initiative of bed games came from the wife, now she does not show it. If the initiative usually came from the husband, the wife begins to go to bed only when the husband is already asleep, or tries to lie down and fall asleep first. Either he starts sleeping with the child all the time, or in any case he sleeps separately from the husband (for example, under the pretext that he is snoring, etc.). Naive husbands think that the wife is either very tired or has entered a period of menopause. Sometimes it also happens that a radical and unjustified change in a woman's sexual behavior is also a sign of her meetings with a completely different sexual partner.
3. The wife begins to walk everywhere with a mobile phone, does not part with it for a second, she is very nervous if her husband picks it up. At the same time, new passwords may appear in it (as in social networks), or the wife always puts her mobile phone on “silent” mode. This helps unfaithful wives to hide active correspondence with their lover. But it is impossible not to notice that a woman literally lives in her mobile phone. As well as the fact that someone constantly calls and writes to my wife after hours. Moreover, the one who speaks in a man's voice is usually recorded on his wife's phone under a woman's name.
4. The wife often does not pick up the phone when her husband calls, or drops the call and calls back later herself. Then when she is without a lover.
5. The wife begins to regularly linger at work, referring to rush jobs, checks by the bosses, the difficulties of the company, passing the balance sheet, opening up career prospects, etc. If it is included in the system, then it is “cherchele la men”.
6. The wife runs away from home by hook or by crook on weekends and holidays. Ostensibly to work, or to help friends, or to do some part-time job, or to visit parents, etc. The main thing is that on the weekend the spouse disappears in an incomprehensible direction for a couple of hours. After all, even in a couple of hours you can do a lot.
7. The wife begins to communicate too much with her friends. More precisely, with supposedly girlfriends. It is the requests to the husband to let him go “to sit with the girls in the cafe” that are most often a cover for the dates. When the wife really starts the evening with a conversation with a friend in a cafe, and then the man of her dreams drives up to them.
8. The wife does not take her husband to her corporate events. This often means that she is in a relationship with a coworker or boss.
9. The wife stops planning the birth of children in the marriage. If before that she advocated the birth of another child, now she in every possible way avoids this topic of conversation. Because either he plans to have a child from another man, or, in principle, does not want to get pregnant, so as not to worsen the intimate relationship with her lover.
10. The wife stops discussing long-term family projects with her husband, such as purchasing a summer house, another apartment, etc. Because she already knows for sure that she will while away old age with a completely different man.
11. The wife avoids spending a joint vacation with her husband, while in every possible way welcoming him to spend his free time without her: so that the husband alone leaves for the dacha, to his parents, abroad, on business trips,for professional development, etc. Because a woman knows that she can have a good time without him. If, from such a regime of life, he himself will have a mistress, this will make him guilty for a future divorce.
12. The wife tells her husband too much about one of her colleagues (customers, clients, classmates, etc.), while either criticizing him or vice versa, setting this man as an example. Usually, this is the lover.
13. The wife begins to hide her passport from her husband. This means that under the guise of business trips, professional development or treatment in a sanatorium, she went abroad with her lover. Or plans to do so soon. The husband's analysis of the stamps in his wife's foreign passport sometimes leads him to new geographical discoveries.
14. The wife begins to hide from her husband the true size of her income and expenses, does not give her husband her bank card, does not provide the password for the online bank, does not show checks. At the same time, her financial behavior also changes: she either starts asking her husband for much more money for herself (see point # 2), or, on the contrary, asks for much less money (another man spends his money on her).
15. The wife stops going out with her husband in public places (cinema, cafes, concerts, theater, etc.). In order not to run into a lover, or those of his friends who do not know that this woman is married.
16. The wife stops going out with her husband to her friends and rarely invites them to visit her home. Most likely, she has already introduced them to her lover and is very afraid that one of them (or their husbands) might tell her husband.
17. The wife seeks to reduce her husband's communication with her parents. Thus, she morally prepares them for the fact that she has serious difficulties with her husband, perhaps in the future he will be replaced by another man.
18. The wife sometimes begins to talk and call her husband by a different name (referring to the name of her office colleague at work or the main customer). Or he stops using in relation to her husband those diminutive nicknames that were previously used in the family. Plus, it also requires that he stop calling her with those cute nicknames that were led long ago, from the moment the love friendship began.
19. The wife has some things that the husband did not buy and that are donated by her lover: eau de toilette, handbags, scarves, expensive fur coats and boots (supposedly bought from hands or at a discount), jewelry, bijouterie, gloves, umbrellas, accessories for a mobile phone, etc. etc.
20. If the wife drives herself, she begins to seek less and less help from her husband to solve some technical problems. After all, in this she is now being helped by another man. Or a wife, who had previously been quietly driving an inexpensive car, suddenly demands to buy her a luxury car on credit. So that it would not be ashamed in front of a lover.
21. The wife as a whole rarely asks her husband for help in some matters in which his help was previously very necessary: set up a mobile phone, bring something, pick her up from work, give her a lift somewhere, make an appointment with a doctor, lawyer, etc..d. The independence of a woman, who had not previously been independent, usually means that the husband's burden of helping this woman in life has been taken over by another man.
22. The wife begins to call and write to her husband noticeably less herself, her jealousy and, in general, anxiety about him and what he is doing, noticeably decrease. The wife stops criticizing her husband for being overweight, drinking, friends, fishing, football, etc. Because from now on she is much more interested in the life and pastime of a completely different man.

In principle, the presence of at least five signs of whether a wife is cheating on this list should make the husband think about whether his wife is faithful to him. If a dozen of these signs are recruited, the likelihood of betrayal is very high.

What a husband should do in this delicate situation and how to understand what caused his wife to chill to her husband is described in such my books as The Sevenquakes and How to Assess the Strength of Your Marriage.