2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It would be strange to deny the fact that a person acquires the basis of his life attitudes in childhood from his parents. The image and role of the father, the man in this process is no less important than that of the mother. Moreover, for girls, in some moments, it is even more important than for boys. Based on the research results, the fact is that a father is the first person of the opposite sex who loves a girl and demonstrates this love and appropriate attitude to her. This is very important for the further formation of her "female" self-esteem, not self-esteem as a person or a professional, but, specifically, as a woman. If a girl does not receive this type of communication in childhood, then, with a high degree of probability, we can say that in adulthood a woman can experience, even unconsciously, a gamut of negative feelings towards men. The basis of which will be distrust. It is the experience of communication with the father, and not the personal example of the mother's life, in some cases, is an influencing factor in the life of a woman.
The most terrible, in my opinion, in this context is the situation when the father demonstrates active aggression and rejection of his daughter. This can be a consequence of the use of alcohol or drugs, be episodic, but despite this, the consequences can be very sad. In such cases, the girl develops a persistent fear of men, which can come with her all her life. Of course, this feeling is leveled over time, but it does not completely disappear anywhere.
Men who bring up daughters need to remember that by their conversion, they, in fact, build the future foundation of women's happiness or not the happiness of their daughters.
The attention and love of the father that were not received in childhood affects not only relationships with the opposite sex, but also the general attitude towards life. Feelings of disliking prevent some women from reaching emotional maturity. It is not uncommon for women to try, unconsciously, to act out this situation in their families. For men, this has a chance to get closer to their woman emotionally, offering her the feelings and relationships that she wanted as a child. But, of course, in everything you need to observe the measure.
Sometimes women start to treat their men negatively for no apparent reason. And here it is worth thinking about the fact that the problem may not be in the man who is nearby, but in those beliefs that come from childhood. And so much affect the relationship within the couple. It can be a fear of men or not love for them, resentment or anger, which were acquired in relation to the father, and now received a way out, and this leads to unpleasant experiences and consequences. One way or another, it is the image of the father and his qualities that will underlie the relationship with the man, since the father is the first man in the girl's life. And it is almost impossible to replace it with something or someone.
It is impossible to cover all aspects of this problem in a short article. But it should be understood that fathers play an important role and are responsible for the further fate of their daughters as women.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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