2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-08-08 14:21
When I'm angry, he himself must understand why, so that he understands what his mistake was
When I want a gift, I hint to him as I can, and so already, and so. You have to be dumb not to understand
In s * kse, too, I have to understand myself - I mumble when I like it, what's incomprehensible?
But how else, we are two halves, which means he must understand me from a half-glance
I'm not funny, really. I want to cry. Because I meet such people through one
Let's start with theory. You, my dear friend, the universe. Yes Yes exactly. With its habitat, population, geography, special flora and fauna, traditions, weather and God knows what else
And every other person is also the same universe. Yes, even the stupidest one. Yes, even the smallest. Yes, even that bum over there who fell asleep under the tree
And the secret of a perfect relationship is not that the stars come together. Not in fate or chance
The recipe is extremely simple: you open your mouth and speak. It would be very cool if you did it with the help of the I-message
You take your finger and show it
Using your ears, you listen (only your ears, you still have time to use your mouth)
You turn on your brain and look for compromises for yourself
Using our favorite mouth, you voice it
If there are compromises, and both of you are happy with them - everything, you are perfect for each other, magic
We are humans, not wizards or X-rays. It is better to spoil the romantic silence with the phrase: “It’s so unpleasant for me, it’s better to do it like this,” than then walking around pouting for a week, so that he himself guesses why you are angry
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