2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The attitude to the incident, like betrayal, is different for women and men. Accordingly, the reaction to such an event will be different. Men tend to be more harsh about what their partner has cheated on. At the same time, the reasons will not be important for the man, and all attention will be concentrated on the fact itself and on the perception and experience of this situation. And to do with this, almost nothing is impossible, since these features are inherent in a man by nature.
A man does not forgive betrayal because he will consider it primarily a betrayal, and this man almost never forgives even close friends. When a man considers a woman a part of his world, and betrayal happens on her part, then this world collapses, since it was created specifically for two. And at this moment, a man loses all trust in a woman, and without trust, there is almost no relationship. It is the loss of trust that is not forgiven by a woman and is perceived by a man as an insult to him.
A man does not forgive betrayal of a woman also because the very fact of betrayal is a very strong blow to his pride and self-esteem. In a relationship, men consider themselves to be the best for their woman, and betrayal is a statement that this is not so. The man is humiliated, and this is not forgiven. And if we take into account the fact that in most cases, men tend to consider a woman only their own, then in a situation of betrayal, it turns out that a woman can belong to someone else, a man, an owner by nature, will not share her with anyone, it is better to part …
After a woman has cheated on a man, it is not uncommon to have a feeling of disgust towards her, and no matter how good the relationship was before, this feeling will outweigh the scales. In such situations, men tend to paint a picture of the process itself very vividly in their imagination. And this sharpens the perception even more. It is very difficult for a man, even after some time, to forget this feeling. He begins to treat a woman with contempt and, of course, there is no talk of any forgiveness.
There is an opinion that a man can forgive a woman for adultery if she presents it as a mistake that was accidental, or when a man focuses more on his children together. Here it is worth understanding that the relationship will still not be the same, all the reasons listed above will take place. A man may not clearly demonstrate them, nevertheless they will be in his head. When women are advised not to convince a man that it was a mistake, then one must understand that manipulations in such a situation can also cause the opposite effect.
Another point, if a man for some reason resigned himself to the fact that a woman cheated on him, then over time the situation may repeat itself, since the woman herself, having ceased to feel guilty, and realizing that there is no man's reaction, begins to rapidly lose to respect for such a man. And not everyone can live with a person whom you do not respect.
There are different circumstances and conditions in a relationship, but it is much more useful for partners to find an opportunity for dialogue, and not to bring the situation to critical actions that can destroy this relationship.
Live with joy!
Anton Chernykh.
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