What Should I Do To Keep My Husband From Cheating?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

How to avoid adultery in marriage? What should be done so that the husband does not cheat? Is there any way that would completely exclude betrayal on the part of husbands and wives, 100%?"

I have to disappoint my readers: there is no guaranteed way! Of course, there are couples where both partners - that is, both the husband and the wife - have low sexual needs. Then there will definitely be no betrayal. However, if both a man and a woman have a high sexual temperament, the risks of cheating are quite high. But they are especially high if in a couple there is a noticeable skew in sexual appetites - someone needs sex every day, while someone needs it once every two or three months.

Nevertheless, there are still opportunities to significantly reduce the risks of adultery in marriage. To do this, you need to understand the main reasons that lead to betrayal and, if possible, exclude them. There are only thirteen of them:

13 main reasons for cheating:

• 1. Lack of personal attention to each other: no kisses, hugs, gifts, compliments, etc. Hence - low self-esteem and easy sale to outsiders for crumbs of attention, a cup of coffee and a bouquet.
• 2. Lack of technical conditions for intimate life in the family (cramped living space, near all the time children, parents, relatives).
• 3. Refusal or evasion of one of the spouses from intimate life in the family (the notorious eternal headache, chronic fatigue, etc.)
• 4. Unwillingness to add variety to family sex (especially after a decade of marriage).
• 5. Lack of a uniform work and life schedule for spouses. (When someone leaves for work early in the morning, and the other half sleeps until lunchtime. Or someone works during the day, the other - at night).
• 6. Regular absence of one of the couple at night: business trips, advanced training and training sessions in other cities, watch, work as a "trucker", pilot, geologist, sailor, military personnel, etc.
• 7. Lack of interesting leisure time in the family, savings on visiting cinemas, concerts, cafes, travel, attractions, museums, etc.
• 8. Alcoholism, drug addiction, parasitism or violence and the rudeness of one of the couple, when the other half has a physical aversion to intimacy with such an unpleasant partner.
• 9 such a noticeable deterioration in the appearance of one of the couple that all eroticism disappears (extra 20 kilograms, wardrobe that has not been updated for a long time, neglected appearance, lack of hygiene, etc.). It is especially sad if someone worsens their appearance while their partner's appearance improves.
• 10. Lack of communication and mutual interest in couplesThat is, when the spouses have nothing to talk about, nothing to discuss, nothing to laugh at together.
• 11. Lack of transparency in the life of spouses (passwords on phones and on social networks, the level of income and expenses (there is a sexual demand for secret surpluses of money), the schedule of work and meetings, etc.).
• 12. Lack of personal involvement in the life of the spouse, when in the work collective for many years no one even knows about the existence of a husband / wife, or a husband / wife completely refuses to communicate with each other's social circle. As a result, lovers / mistresses are logically turned on, sincerely confident that since there are no “second halves” nearby, it means “everything is bad” in the family and they have a chance.
• 13 severe grievances and major fights (because of parents, children, friends, everyday life) because of which communication deteriorates so much that it is not up to intimacy at all.

As you can see, in general, everything is clear. Therefore, it is important:Have your own home; not depend on the opinions of relatives and friends; to give children to grandmothers on weekends and holidays; be active in family sex; observe your figure and image; go out together; spend vacations only together; regularly come to each other's work and corporate parties; planning leisure time together; communicate more often, laugh and caress; give each other gifts and make pleasant surprises; live in one schedule; do not insult each other and do not let go; be proud of each other's successes in life and make their own career; trust each other, but do not forget to check)))

If these simple conditions are met, the likelihood of cheating will be minimal. What I sincerely wish you)