Why Doesn't The Man Propose? 3 Tips On How To Properly Motivate And Inspire A Man

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Why doesn't the man propose? 3 tips on how to properly motivate and inspire a man

Why does a man not propose. One of the problems of our time should be considered the fact that most of today's girls were either born single mothers, or their parents divorced when the child was not yet 14-16 years old. Accordingly, the girls grew up without having before them an example of correct communication between a man and a woman, husband and wife. Well, and their mothers, naturally not very fond of their former partners in relationships or marriage, are simply not able to teach their daughters a positive and respectful attitude towards men. So a girl reaches the age of 20-25, it is time for her to get married, but she does not know how to properly communicate with such a perishable product as a man. And then she wonders: why, if I'm all so good-looking, they won't marry me? And if they do get married, they quickly lose interest in me, cheat, get divorced …

In order to somehow compensate for this elementary lack of knowledge, skills and abilities, I recommend that my readers familiarize themselves with the thirty rules of correct treatment of men collected by me personally. I am sure it will be useful for you. So:

Thirty rules of the right way with men, helping to quickly get married and keep the family.

1. A man should be loved whenever possible. If it is impossible to love, at least appreciate him. If it is impossible to appreciate, at least respect him. If it is impossible to love, respect or appreciate, it is better not to communicate with him at all, and even more so not to marry him, and not to live with him. There will be no living anyway.
2. A man must be sure that in this pair he is the most important.
3. Even if a man realizes that in a given pair he is not the most important, he must clearly understand the advantages for himself of this situation and believe that it is temporary. But in fact, in this pair, the most important is still he!
4. A man must be sure: that in a given couple he is the most important, not only he and his woman know, but also everyone around him.
5. A man must be sure that he is the best man in the life of a given woman. Like a man.
6. A man must be sure that he is the best man in the life of a given woman. As a Person and Personality. A woman like him has never met before and will definitely not meet. Therefore, one or two admiration for a man a day is desirable.
7. A man must be sure that his woman is always confident in him.
8. A man must be sure that his woman will always come to his aid in difficult times.
9. A man must be sure that his woman knows for sure: her man will always achieve what he wants. And if he cannot achieve something, it means that he simply does not want it …
10. A man should consider that his woman really needs him. She will immediately die without him, and therefore he should not leave her alone for a second. Especially in the evenings and nights.
11. A man must be sure that whatever he wants will be immediately supported by his woman. Phrase: "Yes, dear!" should sound at least three times a day. Exception: a woman's reaction to a man's daily drinking and socializing with friends too often. Especially in a bathhouse, nightclub or garage.
12. A man must be sure that even if his position or proposal is not supported by his woman, then, in any case, they will be listened to.
13. A man must be sure that his woman is always faithful to him. Therefore, her vacation separately from a friend (husband) is unacceptable, and any reasons for jealousy are excluded.
14. A man should always believe that he fully knows his woman and think that he is informed about her every step in life: both the past and the future.
15. A man should be sure that his woman will always feed him tasty food, wash his shirt and sew on a button.
16. A woman is obliged to always consult with a man, even when he is not interested in it, and he never remembers it. Especially on the distribution of finance and purchases.
17. A woman should support all but the wildest and most ridiculous sexual initiatives of her man. If a man is shy about something, it is possible and necessary to offer to revive the intimacy herself.
18. A woman should hide from her man the amount of her earnings in the event that it is noticeably higher than his.
19. A woman should not openly hate her man's parents, relatives, and friends. It is desirable, in general, to learn how to get along with them.
20. A woman herself should remember when a man's relatives and friends have birthdays and professional holidays and anniversaries. And delicately remind him about it when the time comes.
21. For a woman, it is correct to learn how to communicate with a man's children from a past marriage (or past relationship).
22. A woman should give birth to children for a man even when he is silent on this matter.
23. A man cannot be left alone for a long time, so that he does not have dangerous temptations. Including on the Internet.
24. A man should not be asked for his opinion about other women: he may start thinking about them. And this is fraught …
25. It is important for a woman to know the specifics of her man's humor and to react to it correctly.
26. It is important for a woman to know the life goals of her man and build a life together, focusing on them.
27. It is important for a woman to know the interests, hobbies and hobbies of her man and, to the best of her ability, make them her own.
28. It is more correct for a woman to forgive a man for his minor everyday sins: not a raised toilet seat on the toilet, socks scattered everywhere, not always washed dishes, eternal crumbs on the table and a soiled stove.
29. It is reasonable and beneficial for a woman to agree with a man that all the best qualities of his child are from him.
30. A man at any age is always a big child himself. Therefore, he has the right to his toys in the house or garage (weapons, fishing rods, sports and summer cottage equipment, etc., etc.).

Second. Learn to raise real Men.

I would be a bad psychologist if I believed that all men are real Men, and women treat them badly. Of course, there are many men among men who are men only by a set of sexual characteristics, and are not able to behave like men and are not taught. Including because they themselves grew up without fathers. However, I also firmly know that:

By reproaching a man that he is not a man, it is absolutely impossible to raise a real Man.

Therefore, it is not right to lose precious female nerves and calories on this pointless activity. However, I also know something else:

Treating a non-man like a real man

the belief that correction of his personality traits is possible, often it is possible to create a Man and a Gentleman

from a seemingly completely neglected version.

Therefore, I strongly advise you: you can and should believe in your man! Treating him kindly, creating spiritual comfort for him, carefully supporting his initiatives, praising all his good deeds, supporting him morally in difficult times, you may well be able to give him such directions of development that, in the end, will absolutely suit you.

Therefore, when I say “to raise men,” I do not mean raising boys (although this is also very important), but such upbringing of already grown-up men, when you get a Man, precisely due to the fact that you have always treated your partner precisely as a Man. After all, it has long been known: if you water a pumpkin grain like a grain of wheat, your pumpkin will grow so-so. A pumpkin seed should be watered exactly like a pumpkin seed, and not otherwise. Then the pumpkin will grow into a pumpkin. Hence, the moral:

If a woman wants to have a Man next to her, she should treat her chosen one exactly as a Man. Most likely, that is what he will become.

And to speed up this transformation of just a man into a Real Man, check out the third tip.

Third. Motivate a man for success in life with your desire to have a child from him.

Let me remind you that among the 12 leading reasons-motives for which men decide to marry, there is also reason # 7: The motive of becoming a father (procreation). I did not select a separate chapter for the analysis of this reason: everything is too simple here. A man wants to become a father, thereby raising his social status, feeling like an adult and all that. Nothing complicated. In addition to two nuances: the surveys I personally conducted have clearly shown that as the most optimal mothers for their future children, men would like to see girls who:

• - Always neat and clean dressed (not necessarily expensive).
• - Good housewives.
• - Very sexy.
• - With whom men are mentally and comfortable to communicate.

Here is the last point I would like to draw your attention to. There is one dialectical point here. Rate it. According to my polls of men:

A man wants to have children from a girl with whom he is comfortable to communicate. At the same time, the very statement of the girl that she would like to have a child from a particular man, because he is the best on earth, immediately turns this girl into a very comfortable one for male communication. And the man begins to reach out to this girl, seriously thinks about the wedding …

I would like to draw your attention to two important nuances.

Nuance number 1. A man should say this no earlier than six months or a year after the start of the relationship. If you tell a man about this after a month of dating, he will not gain peace of mind, but rather lose. This will scare him away. Therefore, it should not be announced so quickly.

Nuance number 2. A man should not talk about a girl's general desire to have a child (all men already know that all girls strive to give birth), but about what exactly is from him. Because he's all so good, a real male and a super man. Then the man will immediately begin to be proud of himself and will be afraid of losing this girl: who else besides him will say such pleasant words to him? That's right, nobody! So it's time to tie her to yourself with a wedding …

Therefore, be wise and cunning. If you want to create peace of mind for a man and, thanks to this, marry him, all means are good. Here is my conversation about the importance of peace of mind for the man you are planning to marry. Listening to what you read will increase not only your chances of getting married, but also your chances of a successful family life. Honest Zberovsky!

Remark.

As an experienced psychologist, I suppose that after reading the “Thirty Rules for the Right Treatment of Men” I had collected, many girls thought that it would be nice if men would act in the same way towards them. I fully agree with this position:

The attitude of a man to a woman should be exactly the same, adequate and proportional to how a woman treats her man. And vice versa. Here.