2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
1) You don't grow up at work.
There are no refresher courses, any other training that your employer would provide you. As a result, it could contribute to your career advancement and affect your salary level. Perhaps you are studying on your own: you attend trainings, seminars on your work profile, but for various reasons you cannot apply the knowledge gained in your current place. Here, either the boss does not like innovations, or the employees put a spoke in their wheels, and you do not want to be a black sheep.
2) There is no increase in internal energy, both at work itself and after it.
It can be different. In one case, you come home, wearily collapse on the sofa with a tortured face and cannot move a single part of your body. In the second, you return to your hearth with a smile on your face and sit down in a chair. Light fatigue with a significant share of satisfaction from the work done during the day envelops you pleasantly. The difference between the two examples is in the amount of benefit and value that you give and produce in your workplace. The more significant the share, the more energy comes back to you, the lower - the less energy, respectively!
It was even tougher with me at one of the jobs: in the morning, even before I could reach it, I felt unbearable fatigue. In order to somehow muffle the loud shout of the inner voice, calling out to put an end to all this as soon as possible, I put headphones in my ears and listened to the next chapter of Brian Tracy's audiobook “Reaching the Maximum”. It became easier for me for a while. It was not that I didn’t bring any benefit by working in that place, but that I had to clamp down on my real abilities and talents, since they were “out of place” there. By holding them back, I had to do the least good I was capable of! From here there was a constant drain of energy.
3) "Bells" of your precious body - migraines, allergies, tumors!
This is a very powerful signal that occurs in the most advanced cases. As a rule, it is already difficult to ignore it. But some still manage.
During my experiments to find myself, two of these were observed: on one of the works, my left leg swelled, and on the other, a terrible allergy came out on my face. The latter became the final straw of avoiding his vocation. I quit that job and completely returned to my favorite activity - coaching and coaching. Body alarms disappeared immediately
If at least one of the points is observed in you, then you definitely need to look for another job. In the first paragraph, you do not develop, do not get to know yourself better, do not experiment, which means that the probability that you will show all your abilities and talents to the maximum drops significantly. In the second - you lose energy - and this is the most valuable thing that you have, lethargic and tortured, you are not needed by anyone! Well, with the third point, everything is clear.
So sum up, draw the right conclusions and act according to the situation!
Zherlygina Julia - self-search coach, personal development coach.
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