2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Your time for a change has come when you say to yourself one of these phrases:
- I want to start life from scratch!
- I want to live differently!
- I lost the joy of life!
- Damn, well, how tired of living on a penny!
- Disappointed in the profession!
- How I hate my job!
But you don't know how to change the situation. You are afraid of change and fear of instability!
You are not alone in your fear, we are all afraid of the unknown. But not everyone is ready to do something about their anxiety.
But, once deciding on this, you can change your life for the better. And who knows, maybe you will inspire many people with your example, as Annabelle Davis inspires today, who at the age of 60 made a sharp turn and became an actress and model.
The only way to change your life is to MAKE THE FIRST STEP!
Perhaps you have repeatedly asked yourself the question of how to do this FIRST STEP? Asking this question, you are already on the path of change, all that remains is to cope with your fear.
It is the fear of the unknown that becomes the reason that people do not change anything in their lives. Most often this happens due to a reluctance to take action and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Yes, it's not easy, but the result is worth trying.
I will show you how to start walking in front of positive change.
- Start trusting yourself. A person is often stopped by the fear that he will not cope. To get rid of this fear, you need to remember the situations when you coped with difficulties. When was the last time you said “NO” to your boss moron or decided on a “blind date”? Create a success notebook where you will write down all your achievements. Write down even the smallest victories in your notebook. You managed to fix the tap yourself, without anyone's help! Okay, write this down in your success notebook.
- Become aware of your fears. Often people are afraid to even imagine what will happen if they fail. Most fears live in the head and do not correspond to reality. Just imagine the worst happened. What's this? Having realized your fears, you will be able to cope with them, because you have a “Notebook of Success”, in which situations that you have repeatedly successfully coped with are recorded. Develop a plan to get out of the worst situation, it will help you to relieve anxiety.
- Trust that you will always have the opportunity to make a difference. People often do not dare to change, they are afraid to be at a dead end, they are afraid of the hopelessness. In fact, each new step will bring new opportunities, alternatives that you can always take advantage of. Think, after all, desperate situations in life happen very rarely.
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