2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
How often you have to postpone everything for later. Remember how you should do something, but put it off until tomorrow. And sometimes, it also happens that there is a desire to commit some act, but for a variety of reasons, you do not commit it, the action remains not begun or incomplete, which afterwards causes you a lot of mental anguish.
And it also happens that you think about a question, try to find a solution, but nothing comes of it. And now, at some point, an insight comes to you - a solution has been found, but you suddenly suddenly "calm down" and postpone your actions for later. And then “tomorrow” appears, and nothing works for you, since all the components of success converged on one point “yesterday”, it was yesterday that the conditions were created for you to succeed. But, the chance was missed and the result, as it is not difficult to understand, is zero.
You can give different examples, but I think that it is already becoming clear to you that you need to act when the desire arose. For example, you need to write an article, it's already evening, you want to sleep. And suddenly, an idea appears, an interesting topic and a wonderful semantic turn, but you put it off until the morning, in the hope that in the morning you will get an excellent article. But in the morning, everything “ingenious” no longer seems so interesting, the zest is lost, you yourself cease to believe in the power of your article. Result - the article was not written. And this behavior applies to our entire life. This is true. There are very few people among us who really use their chance.
If you think about it, everything is logical enough. Even if you take any person, only under certain circumstances can he declare himself to the world: for this, you first need to graduate from school and university, become a professional, learn how to do your job effectively, and not be distracted by distractions. And then, very little time will pass, and all the stages passed earlier will give the result: you will achieve what you want.
Unfortunately, many people “break down” and go astray, postpone what can be done today - for later, in the hope that you will be given a second chance, all the components will converge at one point. but. This may not happen. It is "like a star that falls and you need to have time to make a wish"; if they did not have time, the second time this star will not "break".
Learn to hear yourself, hear and feel your desires, and fulfill them.
Our whole life is a chain of passing moments that together define us and our life. If you are aware of every moment, then life as a whole will be controlled by you and partially predictable. If you feel that right now is the time to do what you dreamed of or worked for a long time, then you need to get down to business and do it. It doesn't matter what time of day. This is the secret of life and successful thinking: do it without delay, use the time and moment, clearly understand that there may not be a second chance.
Be active and successful, use yourself 100%, do not be afraid to do an act when you just feel about its need, but have not yet received a logical explanation - believe in the general point of success; in five minutes - it will be a different time, seconds decide whether you have time to catch the train or not. All the best to you.
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