2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
DAD I DON'T NEED ANYMORE
And how it threatens abandoned children in adulthood.
So what is this?
Feelings of abandonment, uselessness, or betrayal?
And it doesn't matter….
The important thing is that this grown up child will always feel a lack of something. Maybe love, or maybe she will always feel guilty that it is I who are to blame for everything. But this child's self-esteem is forever broken.
And he will have to try to restore it.
Restore vitality and achieve something in life.
If this is a girl, then relations with men will be blocked and there will always be something missing in them. And she will always try to prove something to the Pope at an unconscious level. But in the end, this will be reflected in the relationship with her husband.
But if you look at it, there are no guilty ones.
But this man could not continue to live with that woman, the mother of this child.
But a child will NEVER understand this, he will always feel slighted, abandoned and guilty.
In my personal story, my father did not abandon us, but he tried to do it more than once. And now, from my adult position, I thought more than once, it would be better if he did it on the first try. No one is happier that he stayed
But then I could not even imagine that he would leave…. I did EVERYTHING to make him stay!
This topic is very heartwarming.
But each person has the right to draw his own conclusions.
But if pain remains from this, then it must be pulled out of the unconscious.
And it happens that even an adult falls into depression - here it is more difficult. But everything can be sorted out and changed.
Who saw their sores in this article, write, we'll figure it out together.
With love and understanding, ILANA!
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