Seduced Little Girls

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

They can be clearly seen in a crowd or in a women's team. They are very, very cute. They know how to please, they know how to please, it is interesting, tasty, fun with them, their eyes are burning.

They are very attractive. Because the energy of internal conflict is raging in them between: "Dad, you are mine!" and "Daddy, let me go!" There's also a yummy trick called rejection trauma to polish it.

Dad once felt hard with his wife, bored, feelings cooled down - emphasize the necessary, as they say. So here dad's miracle is born - Daughter! She has no stranger's eyes, she has her own, family, often daddy's eyes, lips, cheeks. She's so sweet. She does not look at him like a wife, she admires him, runs to meet him, barely seeing. Even if he is a little at home, she always squeals with delight, not that this beech-wife pouted out her lips again, what does she just lack ?! The man works, everything is in the house, but everything is not right for her. Tolya's business. I spent the night, did not spend the night at home - my beloved dad came and that's it, a holiday! Wife would meet so! And he is not only loved by anyone (even not every mother can do that!), But he also feels like a hero. He is the best, the strongest, he is the ideal! And he tries more. It's cool - being a good husband is somehow more difficult than being a good dad.

And so he turns all his attention to his little native girl. Often during such periods in the family there are crises, divorces, betrayals. Because the Zhinka somehow becomes lonely. Zhinka begins to aggression with a vengeance, takes offense even more, becomes ferocious, wants to return her husband's attention. The more pushes him away. In his eyes, she's getting worse and worse, not like a daughter, cute.

And the daughter is happy and glad. Daddy is all her! Who is the first to have a surprise? Daughter! Mom later. Who is the greatest gift? Daughter! A smaller mom will do. And then the daughter grows up, becomes also smart and attentive. And it is so good for dad to have a heart-to-heart talk with her. Not like the wife (if she still survived in her status). With my wife, the abyss is growing. And docha - the light in the window. And she runs to tell dad about the first boy, dad is so accepting. Although, there is also a tougher option - you have to hide the boys from your dad, your dad is jealous !!! You can imagine?

Dad is persistently raising a GIRL. He does not need her to become a girl and a woman, he cannot let go of his joy and outlet, he and his shrew-wife are not ready to be left alone after many years of betrayal. Imperceptibly, unconsciously, dad encourages childish traits in his daughter, reacting negatively to her growing up (sometimes up to violence).

And the girl is very afraid of losing her father's love. Often, the only one. Because the configuration in the family is such that the mother is her blood rival! She is not a cute daughter for mom, she is a lover for mom. It's hard for mom in this place, because it hurts so much.

And this girl learns to choose such men so that it does not hurt her much, does not hurt and does not push her away. Although her inner impulse is still trying to break through: “Dad, let go! Let me go to the world of men! And this is a series of strange, dependent, counterdependent, married, problematic, cold, hysterical men. Those with whom it is impossible for a long time. From which you either have to run away after some time … to PAPE. Or they themselves do not really go, because they already have one family.

And this girl will suffer all her life in competition, expecting that someone will nevertheless make the right choice - choose her. After all, her dad was actually deceiving her! Dad went to sleep with mom. And he was married to my mother, and not to her, no matter how she played it in childhood.

And this restless girl, even in her 30s and 40s, can remain a girl who is waiting for her father's blessing, her father's final choice.

And this girl will go to therapy. First, she will learn to understand a woman, build relationships with her, adopt her female experience and warmth, which she was deprived of. And then she will learn to be in relationships with men. Honestly, freely, without seducing or playing. She will learn to choose ITSELF. She will make this SELECTION. But before that … how much she will be afraid, suffer and cry … Dear girl … strength and happiness for you!

I recommend watching the film "Fathers and Daughters".