Seduced Children

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Pedophilia is a sexual preference disorder characterized by sexual attraction to pre-pubertal or early-pubertal children.

The personality of a pedophile is undoubtedly deformed, he may have, for example, a dissocial personality disorder or mental illness.

The pedophile is dependent on his addiction, he is irresistibly drawn to commit more and more serious depraved acts with children.

Pedophilia is often combined with sadomasochism, fetishism and other paraphilia.

Paraphilia refers to sexual preferences outside the normal range. The norm is the laws adopted in a particular society.

In Russia, pedophilia is criminally punishable, as well as any violent actions committed without the consent of another person.

Undoubtedly, the actions of a pedophile cause serious harm to the child's psyche.

Typically, a pedophile starts small, but over time, the old incentives weaken and he moves to more severe forms of violence.

At first, a pedophile can just masturbate to child porn, then he already starts to have children in secluded places and offer them to teach them to kiss, for example, or asks to touch his genitals, then the pedophile begins to force children to have sex directly - it can be oral sex. The pedophile is afraid that if he finds clear signs of violence, he will be reported to the police. Therefore, when in contact with a child, he can use a condom so as not to leave traces of sperm, to rape in such a way as not to cause bodily harm. Although there are different cases, up to murder. Much depends on the addictions of the pervert and the degree of his disorder.

A pedophile can be both heterosexual and homo.

Of the stories told by clients, in most cases the pedophile watched them in a secluded place on the way from school, or he himself worked in a school, circle, pioneer camp, was a pediatrician, a member or other of the family, was a member of the inner circle.

Why does a pedophile have sexual fixation on children?

These are any childhood traumatic impressions that have led to impaired psychosexual development. Internally, the pedophile remained that traumatized, frightened child, only in an adult body. A pedophile can have a fear of the genitals of mature men and women, they can seem disgusting, unscrupulous, non-exciting, unlike children. The pedophile often fears that peers will suppress him, use violence against him. And with children, he feels safe and lets out his depressed sadist.

It is not difficult for a pedophile to figure out his prey. As a rule, this is a child inclined to obedience, accustomed to being obedient, not to contradict adults. Such a child is brought up in a family where he receives little love and support, where no one is interested in his needs, where parents are busy solving their "adult" problems. The main goal of upbringing in such a family is so that the child is quiet and does not interfere.

For this child, a pedophile is not always a monster and a rapist. It also happens that in someone else's uncle, who shows affection, even in such a perverse way, he finds the missing attention. If a pedophile is, say, a teacher or a coach, then a child can be in a relationship with him for months and years and even consider them to be something normal.

One client long ago told how a coach, when she was 12 years old, invited her to his home, offered to watch a porn film. From that very moment he began to seduce her, and each time his actions became bolder. Such meetings continued for over a year. The client was raised by her grandmother, who did not care about anything other than whether she was fed and whether her homework was done.

The consequences of violent actions of a pedophile can be very diverse: post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety disorder, depression, delayed psychosexual development, social fears, inability to enjoy traditional methods of sexual intimacy, body dysmorphic disorder, eating disorders, and much more.

Many parents, even after learning that the child has suffered at the hands of a pedophile, do not go to the police. There are many reasons for this: the belief that no effective measures will be taken anyway, the fear that the pedophile will decide to take revenge on the child, the unwillingness to expose him to new stress during the investigation, fear of publicity.

My opinion is that everything that happens outside the law should be punished. In order to avoid the repetition of these terrible crimes, parents need to show their civic stance.