2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
One of the most significant moments in the process of communication and building relationships between a man and a woman, in my opinion, is how they perceive and understand the information that a partner or partner wants to convey to them. The fact that partners do not always understand, all the more true, do not have to doubt each other, this is life. At the same time, people often create additional difficulties for themselves. Recently, in these issues, the theme of almost total rejection has begun to appear more often.
The fact is that some men and women began to interpret the statements of their partners in the way that is convenient for them or as it is acceptable in society. In other words, more attention has begun to be paid not to what a person feels when he receives information, but to how it is evaluated in his environment. Society, despite its seeming tolerance for mistakes, nevertheless strongly points out that it condemns them. As an example, there are many articles on the Internet about male violence and commercialism on the part of women, as well as a huge number of posts on social networks of the same subject. As a result, the person is explained what he needs to disagree with, and, as a result, to fight.
In this case, objectivity becomes the leading concept, that is, an opinion about how it should be in reality. This kind of position is almost a god. In reality, a person can only assume and desire, and all this taking into account the characteristics of a partner. Otherwise, it turns out that if a woman looks for the features of an abuser in her man, she finds them, and a man can see female commercialism even in a request to buy potatoes. Our brain may well use the same information in completely different ways. Imagine that you are walking down the street in late autumn, you are cold. You feel it not only because it is, but also because you know that winter is coming soon and the air temperature will become even colder. And if at the same moment imagine that it is early spring, then it is quite possible that you will warm up and your mood will improve. The same mechanism can be used when it is necessary to interpret the information that a person receives from his partner or female partner.
Struggle in a relationship involves winning one over the other. And this means not just concessions and mutual changes in behavior, but complete submission of one to the rules of life of another. Thus, in a pair, one partner breaks the other. Victory has been achieved, and here people are often faced with the fact that it is easier to live with a “broken” person, but this does not bring satisfaction. And it is his people who begin to look in other places, this is work, and casual relationships, and alcohol or drugs. But relationships tend to end.
It is still better to perceive the words of your partner or partner not from the point of view of correctness for society, or from the position of imposed objectivity, but based on your own feelings and experiences. Relationships, where such a process of perception is mutual, last longer, and bring pleasure to both man and woman in various spheres of their interaction.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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