2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Students sometimes ask very interesting questions. Here is a discussion of one of them.
Continuing the theme of templates. I realized that I can't do anything according to a template. It scares me. I can't remember the template. He bothers me. He blocks me. I sit, I am silent and I can not suggest anything to the client. I cannot say a word, because I have forgotten them. As a result, we switched roles, and even after that almost nothing worked …
Colleagues, I want to console you. All at once.
There are four steps to mastering any skill.
Unconscious ignorance
I do not know something and am not aware of my ignorance. Happy ignorance.
For example, I am a child from Africa who has never seen a bicycle and how you can ride it. This ignorance is neither bad nor good for me. I don’t know what a bicycle is, and I don’t know that I don’t have one, and I don’t know that I don’t know how to ride it. I live as I live. And I feel good. I have enough rhinos for games.
And suddenly…
Conscious ignorance
A pale-faced man on a bicycle rode past me, past a child from Africa. Flew past me at some superhuman speed.
Wow!
Wow!
And at that moment, as a child, I realized that I didn’t know something, that I didn’t know how, that I didn’t have something. I don't have a bicycle.
Tragedy! The end of my happiness!
I am now an unhappy person, deprived of such a happy opportunity as to ride a bike with the breeze.
But at the same time I am a happy owner of a dream. I WANT you to ride a bike. I now have a purpose in life!
The next stage of mastering knowledge is conscious knowledge.
They bought me a bicycle. I hold it in my hands … Trembling all over my legs … I am trying to sit on the saddle … But it is uncomfortable … Hand on the right, hand on the left … Trying again … I'm in the feather grass …
And so on until it starts to work out. This is perceived as a feat!
And then a cry of delight! I'm doing it!
“I fly wherever I want! Wherever I want, I’ll take it there!”
And finally, this stage of mastering knowledge: unconscious knowledge(automatic skill).
This is already an improvisation.
I just sit down and drive, not paying any attention to right or wrong, I hold the wheel or pedal. All my attention is on the wind in the face, on the visual images of the surrounding world, on the feeling of movement, on the feeling of speed … The beauty of the universe floats towards! I am enjoying the flight! Complete flight!
Job templatesthat you are talking about is the stage of conscious knowledge. This is a necessary stage of development, a necessary stage in the development of any skill.
A musician also does not immediately know how to improvise. He plays in the scale music school for a long time.
You are still at this stage. So far you are annoyed that you are still working according to a template. But what to do? This is a necessary step.
But if the client has been in the role of master of his situation for a long time. He is for himself at the stage of automatism. If he has something to say, let him. He knows his situation better anyway. His own words are always worth their weight in gold.
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