2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
The conversation today will focus on grievances and how they affect our lives, abundance and prosperity.
There are a lot of adults in the world who take offense at people for various reasons. Some do it deliberately in order to manipulate others, and many do it unconsciously, out of habit. Women take offense at men, children at their parents, subordinates at their boss….
Some may say so, I was offended by this and that. For example, you didn’t come on time, you didn’t buy me a fur coat, you refused me, you didn’t buy me, etc. etc. And there are unique ones who simply pout their lips, turn away, frown, fold their faces in a grimace of sadness, they say, guess what I am here, offended. A familiar picture, isn't it?
And most importantly, the person who allegedly offended us, as we believe, has long forgotten about us and is not even aware of the feelings that we have for him.
An offended person soon begins to get angry when at the offender, and when at himself, that he did not react on time, that he allowed himself to be insulted, humiliated, allowed himself to be late for a meeting, etc. etc.
When we allow ourselves to be offended, and I want to note that this is our and only our choice to be offended or not, then we accumulate our offenses in our body. Basically, our respiratory system suffers from this.
Resentment is an emotion caused by a complex of reasons associated with life losses, unfulfilled expectations, sadness that reflects a person's suffering.
Often, it is experienced as a decline of spirit, feelings of loneliness, self-pity, a feeling of one's own uselessness, abandonment, misunderstanding by others. Resentment affects decision-making, which are inhibited, a person begins to doubt his own strengths and "closes" in his pain. Resentment is associated with doubt, sadness, and sadness. Since a person thinks that no one understands him, he begins to experience mental pain and takes offense at those who do not see his suffering. The potential of this emotion contains the power of a sudden mobilization of a person who, due to an unknown internal impulse, begins to decisively change his behavior. This impulse is sadness that uplifts the energy of the past, which can help make the right decision. But, more often than not, a person will try to avoid pain by spontaneous, quick decisions, the images of which emerge from the subconscious, from the cells of his memory and force him to make the wrong decisions. This is due to the fact that resentment raises to the surface, as a rule, negative informational images, where there was a place for mental and physical pain.
Of great importance to us is our experience or the sequence of life experiences of the past, which formed a person's belief or a whole set of beliefs. And it can be a positive experience that has led to rewarding beliefs, or it can be a problematic experience that leads to limiting beliefs. It is important to understand that this experience is most often associated with childhood traumas, which "overgrown" like a snowball in the subconscious with problems. Children often take offense at their parents, cry and force these experiences into the subconscious.
The basic emotion of sadness often manifests itself as a strong resentment, which unites all experiences. Therefore, often an offended person hangs up in doubts, in his past, unable to let go of this or that situation or person. Constantly scrolls it all in his head, the more intensifying the pain. This person needs to learn effective forgiveness, which will help them to break free of past clinging and mobilize their inner impulse, which will help them become determined and attract abundance and prosperity into their lives.
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