Praise Or Compliment For A Man

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Somehow it so happened that it is considered quite normal to give compliments to a woman and is encouraged in every possible way, to say the least, some openly demand them. No one is surprised by the fact that these words are at least pleasing to a woman. When it comes to compliments to a man, in most cases, this causes bewilderment and the question, why is it to the man himself?

Quite often, people confuse the concepts of compliment, praise and flattery, especially in relation to men. A compliment is an expression of approval, respect and recognition, praise is a description of a perfect action with a positive assessment, flattery is a deliberate exaggeration of what a person does or can do.

Flattery in its rude form is unlikely to please a man, of course, unless he suffers from narcissism. Praise will be pleasant to a man, but it is still perceived by him as an assessment of his actions from a position from above. The bosses of the subordinates, the parent of their child, praise, in other words, it is pleasant, but not inspiring. Even less to the liking of a man, when a woman tries to rename him into all sorts of "bunnies", "kittens" and other animals, in a man who is not inclined to infantilism, this most often causes latent irritation.

In the depths of his soul, every man is a warrior and a breadwinner, although social conditions are increasingly reducing the external manifestations of this to nothing. But it is in the genes and despite nothing, it lives in a man. At the same time, it is extremely important for any man to receive confirmation that he is the best for this woman.

Example. When you need the shelf in the bathroom to be hung and your man, leaving everything (sofa, computer game), did it. And after that he returned to his important business, then he will certainly wait for a reaction. And if your first phrase is "Well, finally, a miracle happened …", then we can assume with a high degree of confidence that the shelf in the kitchen will wait a very long time for its turn, or, as an option, it will be placed in such a place and at such a height that it will surprise you a lot. But if you tell your man that this is exactly how you imagined the location of this shelf in the bathroom and that he correctly calculated the height, then most likely the actions in the kitchen will take place much faster than you expect.

Men need compliments to maintain his self-esteem, to understand his own need for a woman's life. Of course, a man can receive this outside of a couple, but the words of a woman close to him will always be more valuable to him. Men in most cases regard a sincerely spoken compliment in time and to the place as an instruction for further actions. A compliment to a man in bed from a woman he loves is quite capable of causing such a reaction in him that a woman will not have to regret it.

Not wanting to compliment a man is often associated with stereotypes about relationships, but if you change your point of view and try to build relationships in a different way, it is quite possible that the quality of these relationships will change. Women should remember that compliments give a man confidence, and this is perhaps the most important character trait for which women love men.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.