What Can Female Control Over A Man Lead To?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Family relationships are a process that requires attention. The models that people use when communicating in a family are different. Some are successful, and in some cases the result is completely different from what was expected. In our society, a strong belief has formed that control over a spouse is necessary. Today we are talking about the consequences of controlling the actions of a man in the family.

In many cases, women, for various reasons, believe that they are simply obliged to control almost every step of their man. The reasons for this may lie both in the example of the parental family, and in the social attitudes that a woman receives from others. But let's consider precisely the possible consequences of such control.

Not every man will go to the fact that his actions were controlled, those who know how to take and be aware of their responsibility will not agree to live under the hood even with their beloved wife, because they have developed a sense of their own dignity.

More often than others, men, whose mother was in the position of a dominant personality in the parental family, allow themselves to behave in this way. In other words, such a man is accustomed from childhood to obey the opinion of a woman, and considers this to be normal for himself. Such men also take control very calmly. And in certain situations, especially at the beginning of a relationship, women even like it. They mistakenly believe that a man has a pliable disposition. But there is also a flip side of the coin, as a rule, they (such men) are very reluctant to take decisions, seek to shift responsibility to anything or anyone, plus a manifestation of laziness is possible, which happens on an ongoing basis.

Such men are more likely to perceive the controlling actions on the part of their women, as opportunities to be eliminated from solving some problems. And given the fact that for the most part men are very conservative, then over time they form a stereotype of behavior, which is expressed in the fact that a man will perform some actions only after his wife is instructed, while such a man will perceive the manifestation of initiative, as a completely unnecessary action. Why invent something if you can get an instruction, and even if nothing comes of it, justify the failure by the fact that the error was in the instruction itself.

Subsequently, a woman becomes unpleasant with such a man's behavior. It is difficult for her to constantly make decisions on her own, and she tries to blame the man for this. But if you face it, is he really so guilty? This pattern of perception often makes it difficult for a woman to understand what to do in such a situation. Such a relationship can last for a long time and throughout this period the woman will suffer from the fact that she cannot (for various reasons) return the responsibility to the man and stop controlling him. And this is already a matter of faith in a man and support from a woman.

Making a man feel independent is difficult for many women. Women justify themselves by saying, “He will completely disappear without me,” but as practice shows, this happens extremely rarely. The role of the mother is appropriate in the family in relation to the children, but not to the husband. It is necessary to understand this both in relations with a man and in the process of raising boys.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.