2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Each of us has our own resource. It is similar to the resources of a country, continent, rivers, oceans. Those. a certain set of "minerals", thanks to which we have our internal capabilities.
What do I refer to this?
Our abilities and talents
Willpower
Internal rod
A certain type of nervous system
Temperament and character
Good luck in business
Ability to feel / understand the situation, circumstances
Ability to trust, find people you can rely on
It is important for each of us to understand our resources. They help us to adequately assess who we are, what we are. We are not robots, and we cannot do everything, reach any heights in various matters. However, we are able to reach certain heights in those areas where we are most effective. One person needs a chain of stores across the country, while another needs a small boutique in a cozy city. The sphere is one, but the peaks are different. At the same time, everyone feels the comfort of what they have.
If I am not able to sew dresses, or do marketing, then it is better to contact a specialist. Why waste energy, efforts on a resource that is practically absent in me.
If I do not understand repair materials, it is difficult for me to sit on the forums and read recommendations and advice, then I will trust a person who understands this. I will find this resource in a friend, brother, loved one.
If the documentation and everything related to it is difficult for me, then I will use the resource of another person.
If the temperament of a sanguine person is more pronounced in me, then it is difficult to force me to react to situations the way a phlegmatic person does.
Lack of understanding of your own resources leads to the fact that:
we get lost on the path of life
it is easy for us to impose someone else's opinion
we go to extremes: sometimes we value our strengths too highly, sometimes we completely reduce them to nothing
we make a lot of stupid mistakes
we find it difficult to trust people
we do not understand how to make the right choice
we are dissatisfied with our own lives
we devalue the merits of others, criticize them, while ourselves are far from perfect
We often exhaust ourselves with our own thoughts, looking around. It seems to us that we can, like others, and in pursuit of this, we forget to consider ourselves. Instead of using our own resources, we plant “alien bodies” on ourselves, and then spend all our energy and strength on cultivating that which is alien to us. Summing up the results of our efforts, we get upset, disappointed, do not get what we expect, suffer from a lack of inner harmony and are unhappy with our own lives.
We are not omnipotent. You shouldn't fall into the illusion of “I can do everything,” but you shouldn't underestimate your own capabilities either. Initially, each of us is given that set of "minerals" in which we can be successful, enjoying life.
My message to every reader is to explore yourself. Explore the value that you have. Discover what you are strong at. Honestly admit to yourself which peak you can climb, even if it's just a hill, but you are also very much needed there.
An adequate assessment of yourself is the key to your personal success.
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