2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Man and woman are different in nature. Therefore, they have different needs in relationships.
Sometimes a woman tries to give a man not what he wants to receive. She is guided by her own needs. And then the man can get irritated and close.
Let's learn how to correctly identify the needs of men and give them what they want.
A man in a relationship wants love and trust
How is love-trust manifested on the part of a woman? How does she translate this state?
1. A man expects in a relationship that a woman will not try to change him
You make his decisions, his behavior as they are.
2. A man should feel that he is needed in a relationship
He feels his value in relationships through action. When he feels that he is needed, then he is comfortable in this relationship. He becomes a hero, a leader.
If a woman with her strong energy suppresses a man, oversaturates the space with herself, then she unconsciously pushes him out of this space. And she does not realize that she herself is losing her value. A man has nowhere to rush, he does not have to do anything - the woman will do everything herself.
Do not violate the man's sense of self-importance and his ego.
If a woman does not know how to interact with these feelings of a man (devalues, suppresses, focuses on negative actions), then the man is unconsciously lost. And the man can no longer fulfill his original goals and closes.
3. The woman does not violate the personal boundaries of the partner
He should be entitled to his decisions, even if they differ from yours. You give him the space to be responsible. And you even give him the right to make mistakes. The more successful a man is, the more unconsciously a woman should give him the right to make mistakes. Mistakes make men stronger. If a man does not live this experience, then he does not become stronger.
If a woman wants to control a man all the time and control everything, then this means that she herself lacks inner freedom.
By nature, it is important for a woman to merge, to be one or complementary to each other with a man. And a man needs a distance. And a woman must learn to keep this balance. If a woman violates the man's space with hyper control or hyper care, then the man will look for other ways to maintain this distance.
4. There must be physical and spiritual fidelity in a relationship
And even in thoughts. The more trust and intimacy you have, the more you can get closer to move in the same direction.
Fill your thoughts with the fact that your man is the best, most successful, most beautiful. And the man reads this message.
5. Feedback from a woman is very important for a man
It is for deeds and actions. And thanks for the work done and the time spent. For any action, be it buying bread or a trip to Paris. The more he feels support and positive feedback, the more he has a sense of his own worth in the eyes of a woman.
6. A woman should appreciate the male logic and practicality of men
Women are emotional. The woman fills the relationship with her emotional background. And it is very important what it will fill them with - positive or negative. The emotional background is important for a man for realization in the outside world. In a relationship, he is charged with positive or negative energy. And then it goes and broadcasts what it received in the outside world.
7. Meet the needs of the man
You need to be able to hear, be aware, understand these needs and build your relationships. Then the relationship will be harmonious and balanced. The more you are in a relationship, the more important it is to learn more about the inner world and the needs of a man in order to reveal his potential.
If you have analyzed the relationship and noticed the slightest bells, then you should immediately look for the root cause and take action. But in the right direction. Since there are directly opposite actions due to the fact that a woman is afraid of losing a man, his attention and love. And he begins to "tighten the screws", that is, to strengthen the destructive mechanisms of destruction and aggravate the situation.
Take the first step towards building a happy relationship, go through the author's program on the psychology of a man and a woman "Relationships Dressed in Happiness."
With love and care
Olga Salodkaya
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