An Affair With A Married Man

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57

It happens that a married man in search of a short but passionate romance, especially while he is on a business trip or studying, works in another city, starts a relationship with a woman and does not tell her about his status. A woman falls in love, begins to make plans for the future, and then suddenly the man disappears without explanation or his wife appears on the horizon.

And it also happens that a man does not hide that he is married. For example, he had an affair with a lonely work colleague who set herself the goal of marrying him.

In the ideal picture of a mistress, there is no place for a wife. She harbors expectations that a man, her prey, will be selflessly in love with her all the time, will groom and cherish their common child, wife and children from a previous marriage, will be reluctant to visit, insofar as she will bring most of the money to her. In some situations, this is how it happens.

At first, my husband and I lived in Kazan. He is a builder, organized his own company, built a wonderful country house for our family in a paradise place. We had two daughters, but my husband also wanted a son. He convinced me that I did not need to work., to learn that it is his duty to provide for his family, and I must maintain comfort in the house, give birth and raise children. I agreed. I was so happy, I could not even believe that it was possible to live like this. Often I asked myself how I deserved this happiness ? Friends were jealous. My husband had a friend at work, and I made friends with his wife Masha. Our houses were in the neighborhood. While husbands worked, we went to visit each other, talked. Once Masha admitted that her husband - a womanizer, does not miss a single skirt, but she resigned herself. Since then I began to worry that my husband would not succumb to the example of a friend. We had a long-awaited son and I turned my attention to household chores. In general, I trusted my husband, did not called to work, did not check. I thought that in from now, with the birth of my son, I have nothing to worry about, that we have a strong, friendly family, that my husband loves me. He left for the city in the morning, and came only late in the evening. Paradise ended on the day when a woman called me, said that she worked as a secretary for my husband and was expecting a child from him, asked me to step aside and not interfere with their happiness. I was shocked, lay down on the bed and did not get up until the evening, as if my strength had left me at once.

When my husband came, he apologized, almost crawled on his knees, said that he was not going to go to her, he would just help financially, that he loved me and the children, and the secretary herself persistently seduced him, assured him that after the operation he could not have children … I tried to forgive him, but jealousy plagued me every time he left for work. It was difficult for me to endure. I suggested to my husband to move to another city together, but he refused, explaining that everything is fine here and he likes the city, and what will happen in another is unknown. He didn't want to fail for our family. We started scandals, my husband accused me of paranoia. It got to the point that he invited me to make friends with his mistress, said that she would soon give birth, and there was nothing wrong with our children becoming friends with her baby. I even went for it. The mistress began to visit our house, but it was very unpleasant for me, because I saw her envy, and communication with her negatively affected my self-esteem. Then I began to notice traces of "black magic" in the house: I found ashes on my bed, some salt on the doorstep, my husband and I had a wedding photo torn in two … I don't believe in all these rituals, but nevertheless They exerted psychological pressure on me, her envy, latent anger … My suspicion grew, obsessive fears for my health and the health of children appeared, my relationship with my husband worsened. I broke down and filed for divorce. After the divorce, my husband left me a house, saying that he would build himself a new one. I sold the house and moved to my parents in Yekaterinburg. I still cannot let go of this situation, I suffer from the fact that my mistress took my paradise, that my husband has now built a love nest with her, they live in their beautiful house, which we used to have, and I and my children - in an apartment in Yekaterinburg. Resentment is eating me up. Six months ago, I was in the department of neuroses with depression, recently they discovered a stomach ulcer … ".

Here's a sad story. With Katerina, we have already started working with her injury. There is a high probability that a woman will experience pleasant changes in the future.

However, the situation is not always successful for a mistress. She often repeats her wife's script. It also happens that when a husband leaves to live with another, the instinct of a rival, a hunter, awakens in the wife. She pretends to pretend and includes a woman's cunning, wanting to replay the mistress.

She begins to urge her husband to rescue, demonstrating herself weak, in need of his help, asking for a favor, calling him an irreplaceable, best father, a home craftsman, begins to seduce him. And one day a man thinks about whether he did the right thing when he once left his wife? Previous conflicts are forgotten, and it seems that everything was perfect in general. The husband goes back to his wife.

But did she really forgive him? Game over. What's next?

Each of these stories has many options for development. What to choose? The role of victim, puppeteer or surrender to the flow of life?