IF YOU HAVE ANNOUNCER WITH A MARRIED MAN

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

We will not discuss the sad song about statistics about ten girls and nine guys. Everything happens in this life. And if it, this life, develops in such a way that your man is married, then you need to know all the pitfalls, all the pros and cons of this situation, so as not to end up at the bottom of the trough.

So, this situation has its pros and cons, indications and contraindications.

When an affair with a married man is good for you

· You are a free independent woman who DOES NOT WANT to be bound by long-term relationships and obligations. You just don't have time for them. And this format is convenient for you.

· You have been married for a long time and sadly, but you are not going to get divorced. Why are you so tired of this husband, and why you are still together - we will leave behind the scenes. Find ten reasons and explain to everyone, and above all, you can do it yourself.

· Your husband is cheating on you, and this is how you try to “keep your balance”.

· You are simply not ready for a serious relationship. For different reasons.

When this romance destroys you

· You are already “well over twenty” or even “over thirty”. You have never been married, or you went there unsuccessfully many years ago, in your youth.

· Regardless of your marital status, you finally met your baby and fell head over heels in love with him. He is perfect in every way: kind, and generous, and sexy, and considerate … but he has one drawback. He is a MARRIED MAN.

You are kind, you pity Him, especially when he pours out like a nightingale on the topic of what his spouse is stupid-greedy-quarrelsome, how she does not understand him, and what happiness he met You, so delicate-tender-sexy, who, the only one in the entire Universe is so capable of understanding, supporting, feeding him … And about how he needs you, and he won't live a day without you! But you can't go together yet, because they have a common business with their hated wife, or she has an influential dad, or she is terminally ill, or you have to wait until the child finishes school - choose the appropriate option yourself or enter your own.

· Your excessive naivety and inclination to idealize Him. Sometimes there is a false sense of gratitude mixed in here that he has brought his attention to you. Especially when your self-esteem is just above the plinth, and you treat yourself under the motto "who needs me like that?"

· You have been alone for many years. Relationships do not develop catastrophically. The loneliness of a woman is a terrible thing! From loneliness, you are ready to howl and throw yourself against the wall. Especially on holidays and weekends.

What to do?

· First of all, decide WHAT YOU WANT this relationship for. What do you expect from them? Is this an escape from loneliness or a pleasant cure for boredom in your family relationship?

· If you are ready to put up with the role of a "reserve airfield", the mistress of a married man, then welcome! If not, then urgently go to a good psychologist to solve your problems. Because this is a cure, and over time, your "competitive advantages" in the bride market can be greatly spoiled.

· If you are deeply convinced that He is the only man on the whole planet that you have been waiting for all your life, this is Love with a capital L, which you have never experienced - beware! You have fallen into the network of psychological addiction, through which he will manipulate you and build your "relationship" on conditions that are beneficial for him, but not for you.

· If you are, as it were, “together” for several months, or even years, but things are still there, and you are still singing a song with inspiration on the theme: “Honey, bear with me a little longer, I love only you, you to me need, and so on.”, get yourself a fork for regularly removing noodles from your tender ears. This is the "Autumn Marathon", which men so often get into. Why is a separate topic.

· Remember that life is one, and there is no need to “rehearse” it! Live here and now, think ABOUT YOURSELF, about your interests and desires. Do not be afraid to voice and defend them. Life is too fragile and too short to waste precious time on men unworthy of you!