2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Life happens, it breaks us, knocking the earth out from under our feet …
And then the psychologist acts as "crutches" with the help of which a person needs to start taking small steps. After some time, this person begins to take more confident and stable steps. Then he tries to take bigger steps and hurray !!! It turns out!!!
Having felt the confidence of small steps with support, you can try without "crutches", at first you will strengthen yourself in small steps, and then you will be able to take more steps on your own, then faster, and only then start running and enjoy life, sometimes remembering the "crutches" that they turned out to be useful to you …
But everything is not so simple as it seems at first glance …
Life "broke" … This happens to absolutely everyone, just everyone has a "fracture" in their place, or maybe just a "crack".
You can still tinker with a crack, but with a fracture we go for "crutches"
You can choose easier, cheaper, you can choose exclusive, expensive. The assortment is large and there are "crutches" for every taste
The choice has been made! And so the man took the "crutches" under his armpit and immediately try to run to the finish line, and even for a while !!! You fall by itself, because it’s a fracture! With "crutches" under his arm he is trying to crawl, and not just crawl, but quickly, in order to be in time for sure! And he himself does not know where to catch, but he must hurry … Of course, it is not possible to run right away, of course it hurts, of course anger, resentment, misunderstanding, aggression, hatred towards everyone around you and towards yourself in particular immediately appear! Among all these feelings, the question may arise: "Why don't the crutches actually work ???" There is doubt about the quality of those crutches.
"Of course, I took the cheapest ones, I wanted to save money, if only they would help." Some will think.
"I overpaid dearly for a Chinese counterfeit, and they also showed certificates …" Others will think.
And the point is that the "crutches" need to be used correctly !!!
Do not drag, crawl, lie under your armpit and complain that you cannot run, do not change some "crutches" for others, devaluing their performance, but admit your TEMPORARY pain at this stage of life, lean on "crutches" and take a few small steps with their support !!!
Of course, this is everyone's choice. You can groom and cherish your favorite "crutches" all your life, wipe the dust off them, and at least paint them under Khokhloma. You can change them every week. And you can get support, support when you really need it !!! And continue to live an INDEPENDENT life, feeling firm ground under your feet !!!
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