Why Do I Choose To Work With Parents Of Preschoolers?

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Many parents turn to me with a request “work with my child, do something with him so that he becomes such and such”.

So, this is my view.

Whatever work is done with the child, but if he returns to the family and sees the same, unchanging attitude of the parents towards him, then all the changes take place.

Therefore, I always explain to parents that if you want stable changes in your relationship with your child, if the child changes, his behavior changes, then it is important to change your actions.

And these actions, as a rule, are connected with what and how we tell children. What message we give them, and what children hear in it.

Why do I choose to work with the parents of preschoolers, and not teenagers, for example?

Because, it is important for me to draw parents' attention as early as possible to the relationship they have with their children. How happy they are with them, how good it is for everyone - both parents and children.

Because the sooner the causes of problems in upbringing and in relations with the child are identified, and the sooner work is done to change this, the less problems this growing child will face in growing up.

And the more pleasant the relationship between the parents and the child will be. Such a relationship in which it is good for both parents and children.

Would you like your child to grow up confident in himself, in his abilities?

Able to understand your emotional states, and be able to regulate your emotions?

Curious and having a unique experience?

Who knows how to survive mistakes and is not afraid to make them?

Who knows how to survive defeat and failure, and not afraid to try again and again?

Then it is important to learn to understand the inner world of the child.

And to understand what prevents him from being like that.

True, this does not guarantee that difficulties in the relationship between the parents and the child will not arise.

These complications are inevitable.

But if we have an important understanding of how to cope with them, then, you see, it's not so scary.

And for this understanding to come, it is important to go some way.

The path to parents' understanding of their inner world.

The path to understanding the inner world of the child.

And when there is this understanding, then coping with difficulties is much easier.

And at the same time, parents with children have greater pleasure in communicating with each other.

Everyone is more comfortable in such communication.

Not everyone is ready to follow this path. Someone wants a magic wand to immediately "hop and feel good."

But I don't have such a magic wand.

And at the same time, I have the knowledge and experience that I want to share with you. And which will lead you to better relationships with your children.

By the way, these same tools help to improve relationships in couples: "husband - wife", "young man - girl", "man - woman".

Another such moment.

And one moment.

I mainly work with parents of preschool children.

But if couples or women who are just going to give birth to a child or a child in infancy turn to me, then I can be useful in teaching the expectant mother or already the real one to understand the needs of the child, to hear him, to be able to calm him down and many other things that help mom feel better emotionally.

And thus, from an early age, lay the foundation for an emotionally healthy and wonderful relationship between parents and children.

Therefore, if you want changes and are ready for this path, then contact us!

I will be happy to help you!

Psychologist, child psychologist Larisa Velmozhina.

I help parents improve their relationship with their children!