2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
"Again, not there …" - tells us about the conditional psychological barrier that we must overcome to get out of depression, by the way, and other difficult conditions.
The freezing thought that “again in the wrong place …!”, Which drives into even greater depression a person rushing in the agony of search, unconsciously striving to reveal the meanings, in fact, is very correct, absolutely unmistakable at the level of … the unconscious. It is difficult to understand (to comprehend), as well as oneself, crushed, exhausted, exhausted, twisted by the meat grinder of depression. Everything seems to be there! Everyone should be satisfied, but nothing is needed, it is not interesting and the breaking in the soul is simply unbearable
The problem of realizing such a simple "thought-form" is that it has nothing to do with the material world, nothing to do with the physical, as well as the unconscious itself, which extends "a helping hand in response to a frantic call for it." At the same time, it knows exactly where to go and in what direction, what to do, how to realize itself, that is, how to fill our desires; close, mend, seal this black hole in the soul and get out of the hardest state of incredible suffering. The unconscious, like a caring parent, calmly and quietly whispers in our ear that we are again "going" in the wrong direction. Moreover, it somehow painfully smiled at me, there is some kind of a smile of nature in it, since we are in our earthly searches, leaving for religion, philosophy, wandering in the darkness of psychology, esotericism, etc. we will always go to the wrong place wherever we go!
"Again, not there …" - tells us about the conditional psychological barrier that we must overcome to get out of depression, by the way, and other difficult conditions. It tells us only one thing, that we must change the vector from the desire to fill our desires in the animal type, well, as we are used to filling our body with food, seeking to close our physiological needs for pleasure, to the absolutely opposite direction - the aspiration for bestowal. That is, everything is literal … I sometimes, to explain this "wrong again" that comes to the mind of every person who is depressed, I give an example at the level of food (primitive, but understandable): sometimes the last passionately desired and delicious candy is much more pleasant to give to someone else than eat it yourself (this is at the level of consciousness), but at the level of the unconscious - this is how it is filled, by receiving through bestowal. For him, into himself is a poison with pain and suffering … It receives pleasure, that is, it is filled only by pushing away from itself, in an effort to please (satisfy the needs) of another. The writer is not the one who writes, but the one who is read. The realization of our own desires of the level we are talking about is possible only among other people in their needs, in their lack.
The soul is that which is absolutely opposite to the body, as the psyche is to physics, as the psychic is to the material. This means that she receives pleasure (fulfillment) from the completely opposite …
But now completely "again in the wrong place …"
With suicidal depression, a person is led by only one thing - the desire to get rid of unbearable mental pain. At the same time, in his torment, he blames the body (we must blame someone, we always find someone to blame for the fact that we feel bad), which seems to "bind" him to the material world, full of suffering. He unconsciously hopes that by getting rid of the body, he will get rid of the pain that torments him. However, “to get to God from the back door” is impossible, this is not provided by nature. There is a way out of any state, but it is completely different. Look in the wrong place …
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