2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
In order to come to such a state of inner freedom, it took her a long time. Many lonely evenings, unanswered calls, cold foreign words. And now she is grateful for it all. If the truth of ignorance and dislike had not happened, she would still be sitting, bogged down in unnecessary relationships. And I couldn't move on, just move.
Because her former relationship with a man who did not love her, she was simply paralyzed. The woman ceased to be herself, she lost herself. She tried to understand herself, her partner, what was going on between them. But nothing worked. Probably because it is impossible to analyze what is not.
She came up with everything herself, fantasized. And he was not going to live up to her dreams. The man had and continued his own life all the time, in no way intersecting with her life.
But how nice it was now when, having swallowed all the grievances, she decided to look differently at her former idol. I decided to wait a bit, at least temporarily let go of the situation, step aside. And suddenly she was overwhelmed with a powerful stream of life. The woman directly physically felt the breath of the wind, snow and drift, the bright light of the moon. And other people, as if by agreement, knocked on her world. They were interested with her, and she with them.
At work, the value of which she somehow pushed aside for herself recently, positive changes began to occur. She was offered to participate in an important project, and her salary was raised, albeit only slightly. What's this? The consequence of the despair experienced, when the unnecessary hope for the "completion" of the relationship has gone.
The woman stopped clinging to unproductive relationships, stopped clinging to the past. She honestly talked to herself, and tried, without devaluing the man, to part with him for a while. And, as you know, there is nothing more permanent than temporary.
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