2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
There are only two real pain and suffering in the world.
1. When your desire is not fulfilled in any way, and you keep hoping.
2. When your desire has come true, and … that's it! Now you live without a dream …
BUT! I'm lying … There is still a third pain.
3. When you have fulfilled all your desires, built your life the way you were going to do it, and then discovered that these desires were not yours.
They were dictated by someone else's will. Kind parents who said that stability is the most important thing in this life.
Good friends who said that this man is very good for life, because a mattress, which is not enough, besides, does not drink.
Evil relatives who said that "you will live with mine, then you will learn how to be sick and poor," and you already then, in early childhood, understood everything: by the age of forty, decent people have a couple of sores.
Evil friends who said that the main thing is to preserve the family, and therefore if something in your husband does not suit you, then it is your fault. As soon as you break off the hateful relationship, "your cock-bearer" will be picked up, and you yourself will remain on the sidelines of life with your child.
And, behold, you have built your life the way hundreds of "foremen" pointed out to you. All her life she behaved as hundreds of "non-commissioned officers" told you, dug her garden as hundreds of "agronomists" instructed you. So what?
Perhaps everyone envies you, each in his own way. After all, you have achieved THEIR goals and realized NOT your own, but their desires and aspirations.
You made the choices that you were persuaded to make. Those choices to which you were persuaded by rational reasoning or from the standpoint of authority “Mom knows better what is best for you. So what?
Do you like what you call your life today? Do you like it in all respects? Is there nothing you would like to change right now?
And what prevents you from doing, even the smallest, only for yourself, right today?
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