2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2024-01-12 20:57
Motivation and motivation … words that have firmly entered our lives. Everyone has known them for a long time: "Where to find motivation?", "How to motivate yourself?"
When it comes to the system of motivation, built, for example, at an enterprise, at school, in a family, then it is about the impact and influence on a person.
What about motivation? This is about influencing yourself by yourself. And this, oh, how difficult it is!
Motivation is like a constant readiness for a “heroic deed”. And most often a person is worried about the question not “Why?” but “How? »: How to start learning English? How to start doing this exercise in the morning, after all?
And the question “ Why am I not doing this? - it remains not that without an answer, but not even given.
A person does not have a "magic button" to press, or a winder - and voila! he is motivated-energetic-charged.
There is another approach - to look for the reasons for Demotivation
A demotivated person cannot be motivated. He can only be driven deeper into discontent.
What is it about ? Look for answers to the question - "What prevents me from doing this?"
Maybe:
- Is the idea not plausible enough?
- Do you expect low results?
- Have you already had bad luck?
- Do you have no personal space? ("I am looking for a lawn for my motivation!")
- You are considering "what should I do?" And "what should I (or have to) give up?" don't you notice?
- Do you feel like there is no real choice?
- ……………………………………
A demotivated person is always dissatisfied with his condition and mood. He feels low demands on himself. This begins to annoy him and causes Demotivation.
And a state that helps to successfully solve problems is much more important than a solution
A conversation about motivation often arises when some meaning is lost …
Don't look for motivation. Look for what is stopping you!
It seems that Baron Munchausen was okay! He believed in his abilities. And ability always brings with it the need to use it.
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