People And Misfortunes

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

We often call misfortune some kind of loss, destruction of the way we are accustomed. We repeat: why? why with me? why is it so unfair? etc.

After all, it seems to us that everything was good, and then something, and also suddenly, destroyed this habitual, and most importantly stable, good for us.

But was everything so serene? Or we just tried to persuade ourselves, diligently not noticing the changes, denying them.

There is such an effect - negative hypnotization. When the suggesting person is given a suggestion (suggestion, setting) that he does not see or forgets some real object. By instilling that there are no chairs in the room, a person will behave as if they are not there, although in reality they continue to be there. He will bypass them, and if we ask why it does this, if there is nothing there, according to him, he will come up with something to justify his illogical behavior, but he will defend and remain with the opinion that there are no chairs in the room, period.

The negative hypnotization that you may encounter every day if you are as absent-minded as I am is a perennial problem with clues. The keys are often in front of us, but we do not see them until we have searched the whole house.

But in fact, the phenomenon of negative hypnotization is much more extensive than the problem of chairs and keys. We can inspire ourselves not to notice not only real-life objects that we can somehow touch, but also subjective and abstract phenomena concerning our inner sphere. Elements, feelings, emotions, behavior and in our personal relationships, in our careers, etc.

The obvious problems that others see are not obvious to us, not because we do not notice them somehow on purpose, but because we often subconsciously and even sometimes consciously suggested to ourselves not to see or not notice this or that. This often happens to avoid the pain that accompanies the loss and destruction of the habitual way. It's easier not to notice your dissatisfaction at a boring job than to face discomfort and some kind of consequences of dismissal, looking for a new one, adapting to a new job, etc.

But some events in our life, whether we like it or not, have their own cycles, like everything in this world: birth, flowering, maturity, death or transformation.

Depending on how other periods in the cycle were lived, the event ends with death or transformation. If we have gone through the experience of separation incorrectly in due time, then each cycle we will begin and build based on the fear of loss.

Fear of loss separates us from reality with a strong wall of created illusions: from denial of what is happening, suppression of our true feelings, flight from reality. Therefore, each event that began from fear is transformed only in one formula - death.

The brighter your grief and misfortune, the more obvious you just all this time diligently did not notice all the prerequisites for the transformation of the event. And when the event is ripe, you are not ripe with it. Your pain is a measure of your unconsciousness about your internal processes.