2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
I am sure that each of you at least once faced a situation when a person says one thing to you, but does something completely different. Why is this happening? This is a lie, weakness, insecurity … What motivates people at this moment?
In life, it is very important to be able to understand people. Even more: it is necessary. Without it, you will never have a successful personal life. Without this, you will not see good relations with your colleagues. And even real friends you will not make without the ability to understand people.
Ask yourself - can you do this? Can you feel others? Do you know what to expect from them? How many broken hearts … how many defrauded depositors … how many lawsuits … And the problem is always the same - the inability to understand people.
How can you learn this? First, remember one simple thing: everything people say is not true. Sounds scary, doesn't it? Everything that a person says is not true - because everything is either better than it really is, or worse.
Never listen to what people say - look at their subconscious attitudes. Truth is in the subconscious program that each of us has.
If a person says he wants a million dollars, is that true or not? Lie! He is silent. He wants a million dollars, but so as not to do anything for this. So as not to strain. Is that so or not? Check it out! Otherwise, he would have had this million long ago.
If you have a low battery in your car, you call your friend, and he says that he will come now and help. He's lying! He is silent. He will come and do everything for you. He will come himself, connect the wires himself, check everything himself and start everything himself. There is a program in his subconscious - to help friends, to do anything for the sake of friends.
And another friend says to you: “I will always help you! Call any time! Brother, anything for you. " And he also lies. It depends on his desire. A situation will surely happen when he replies: "Listen, there is no way today … One, second, third … Let's go next week." Sound familiar? But what about …
Have you heard the saying "Friends are known in trouble"? What a person will actually do, how to act, is in his subconscious. You can call it a subconscious life program.
That is why we say to ourselves: "First you need to get to know him better" - before building a relationship. But you really need to know not him, but his subconscious life program.
What do you think, when a husband tells his wife that he will not cheat anymore … - is it true or not? Do not believe a single word of him, look at his subconscious life program. On his habits. On his inclinations and interests. On his instincts. All the answers are there! Once changed - everything, the second time to repeat it - a matter of technology. If a husband cheated on his wife, 90% of him will do it again. Sooner or later. In a year, or maybe in 10 years.
The subconscious is thousands of times more powerful than consciousness. And if it seems to us that one day we will be able to change ourselves, this is nothing more than self-deception. We act only in accordance with the subconscious life program that is embedded in each of us.
Our brain is, in a sense, a computer. He himself, without the participation of consciousness, determines the frequency of contraction of the heart muscle. He himself perfectly regulates the number of breaths in and out. He himself determines exactly when to go to the toilet. He decides for himself whether you are cold or warm, he decides for himself whether you want sweet or salty.
We spend 80-90% of our entire life “on autopilot”. All this time we have been following this program regularly. Observe yourself and you will be surprised. Marvel at how your hands turn the steering wheel to the right when you need to turn right. And before that, you automatically reach out to turn on the turn signal.
Observe yourself and you will notice how similar one day is to another. How similar are the actions we take today to tomorrow's. These patterns, these repetitions, are the moments of manifestation of the subconscious life program.
Therefore, if people tell you one thing, but act differently, and this surprises you, you simply do not know how to understand people. You could not guess / foresee / expect / believe / get used to … Maybe it will come with experience. But to limit yourself from such unpleasant surprises, watch carefully.
Learn to understand people!
Vitaly Shevtsov
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