2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
She cooks exquisitely, looks good (even too much for a housewife), wears a beautiful set of underwear (mind you! The set, not panties and bodice of different colors and categories), does massage to her husband in the evenings (and not only him), agrees with the life position of her husband and supports him in all endeavors. She smells of warmth and brand new Versace scent. She carries in herself humility, looks into the eyes of her husband for a long time, shy from his reproachful look. Like, “Well, how is that? Pork steak, well done, especially requires serving cranberry sauce. At least a pomegranate! And oh yes, after that she expands her repertoire of behavior in the bedroom to the limit of its possibilities …
Well, what a theatrical heresy! Sko-ko-tee-shcha! And do you really think that such a relationship will last for quite some time? No, no, men, well, everything is clear with you. In the above, the only thing missing is a bottle of beer, which the same (Ideal) will still have to bring, after you crawl out of your "never seen before" bedroom.
But women … oh, women. Do you really think that you can play this performance endlessly, immersing yourself and your partner in a destructive relationship? Yes, probably two or three weeks … what did you say? Okay, a month, two. God be with you - six months! For six months you can go to any lengths, if only the man was with you. And then the inevitable will happen to you! If you can convince yourself for a long time that this is not a game, but "so I feel quite good and comfortable", having waited a dozen or two years before the epiphany. The minimum is health problems that will remind of themselves from the side of the kidneys, stomach, heart, or simply - nerves to hell. To the maximum - in advance, even when you get involved in this “ideal” game, sign up to a good psychiatrist so that he knows you well in a few years. And yes. Be friends with a psychologist. Outline to him at once what you want - to live in the role of a victim and "To the impossibility of the right wife" for many years and you wanted to sneeze for your own happiness in a prosperous relationship.
Why are these not normal? Men will ask. Every single day to live like in a movie after the credits, when most of the wives cry at the screens: "Now they are happy now …". No quarrels, no swearing, no easy showdown. The same sex with the already existing ideas about the details. Even if there are some innovations on the part of your wife, they become, rather, a logical expectation. Everything goes like clockwork. No variation, no improvisation. Imagine the feeling when you first heard your favorite song. Probably, they even danced with the thought that "this is definitely a hit!" But a week, two, a month, a year has passed (if you are really a really tough nut to crack) and this song, suddenly playing on the radio, deserves to be thrown at it with something, if only it had already stopped …
The ideal wife is a doll. Unchanging, the same, for which you can only change outfits. Paradoxically, this is how mistresses often appear in the male arsenal. An easy affair for a short while, because how long it will not be perfect.
A real, beloved, own wife is a mixture of pleasant surprises and unexpected emotions. The real one is when her feelings are clear to a man. The real one is when the lower lip puffs out so funny when you quarreled again. The real one is the constant that is different. Perhaps a little hysterical. But, you must admit, sometimes it turns on so …
The real one is the one that can have a discussion with you. And yes, she definitely has her own opinion. The fact that as a result of your brainstorming it can change is normal and quite wonderful.
The real one is the one who, instead of spending a serious amount from the family budget on expensive sets of underwear “for every day”, will find a way to surprise you with her appearance in a slightly different way.
The real one is yours, dear to the point of madness and beautiful to disgrace. You love her like that. And she is happy, because the whole theater, in which she may have to play, will already be in a completely different key and surprisingly short-lived. In this case, take care of your bed.
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