2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Recently, in a tape under lock and key, the question “does anyone need mature women” was discussed. And just the day before, I was walking along Tverskaya Street and saw a very young girl with mother-of-pearl legs - not pinkish pigs, but pink-silver ones. And once again I thought that for joy it makes sense to sleep with twenty-year-old girls and thirty-year-old men, while everyone else should be contacted only for love. Because if you fall in love with a person, then not only age, but gender does not really matter. But when in general it is all the same, the pleasure of a fresh body cannot be blocked by anything.
I tried to generalize my observations of people "necessary and unnecessary", and came to the following formula: if at the age of forty you are in painful need of someone, you are not needed by anyone. Self-sufficient ones are always in great demand. Gullible beings, who for some unknown reason take me seriously, regularly ask the same question: what needs to be done with Him / with Her to captivate me. And I, in the best traditions of boring, answer "do something with yourself." But not for him. And not plastic surgery. They are offended: every gullible creature knows at least ten ways to entertain a partner, but is completely unable to occupy itself. They are also ingeniously able to portray indifference, but in order for a partner to appreciate the game, you need to make him at least look in your direction. And he doesn't care, and when you chase him for three days with a known purpose, he gets away with an indecent speed.
You can look at three things endlessly - you all remember that. It turns out that in order to be looked at, you will either have to burn and pour water all the time, or work. In fact, one has only to plunge into one's own affairs, as someone breaks in by the arm: why are you here, huh? Suppose you are good at it, then those around you have a downright sporting interest in distracting you from an important process - it seems to them that by capturing your attention, they will confirm their importance. If, in their opinion, something is going badly, they will definitely rush to help, and then, when they meet, they will ask “how is our project”. I don't understand why, but people are somehow calmer as long as you look through them. And if a woman has hunger and search in her eyes, she is gone. Unfortunately, it's impossible to cheat here. You can't make up a pretend job to lure a man, and then abruptly throw the embroidery into the bushes and grab the game - it will break free. There must be some real desired goal outside of the relationship, and then they will lug behind you and whine that you are too preoccupied with your career and not paying attention to them, and your irregular interest will be a gift to them. We'll have to constantly drive away the idiots who are sure that any Amazon can be knocked out of the saddle if you throw the stick properly. More decent people are seduced by the idea that you do not need to be entertained and nursed all the time, you are able to live on your own for a while and, moreover, the problem of “what to talk about in the morning” disappears. This, again, is not a game of indifference. The sincere ability to be carried away not by love somehow successfully photoshopped a person and gives her an ageless (and non-sex) charm. (It seems to me that a man who values his marriage should buy his wife a subscription to a dance school, a lampwork kit or a beauty salon in time - something that will occupy her headlong if suddenly she is not in business)
If you have no other aspirations besides gender, you have already lost to a silver-legged girl or a young man with a beautiful torso - I make a reservation all the time, because what a hell of a difference, a man or a woman convinced myself that two loneliness, two boredom, two voids are able to somehow fill each other.
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