2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Does life seem boring and unremarkable? And sometimes, you want so much variety and vivid sensations. And there is no money for expensive toys. What to do? Is it possible to fill life with bright colors without much effort and expense? I answer. Can! In fact, a stream of inexhaustible impressions is hidden inside everyone. It is enough to learn how to switch attention from external objects inward. And here, in front of you, is an almost untouched source of various sensations and impressions.
On the one hand, everything ingenious is simple, on the other, this simplicity still needs to be reached. But, if you set a goal - everything is possible! Who is interested - below I describe general instructions.
So, to get the cherished experience, first try to get rid of expectations and stereotypes. These are habitual patterns of behavior that block the manifestation of diversity in the human perception field. The next, necessary and sufficient, will be a simple shift of attention, from the figure to the background. The central figure always attracts attention, but what is hidden, blurry, not cognized, what does not have clear outlines, is even more interesting. Another, different field of perception is a storehouse of new impressions.
Modern man is tuned in to the external attributes of reality. The impression is made by events that are visible and noticeable. Moreover, the brighter and larger this manifestation, the better. And if you are not Peskov's watch, not a participant in the war in Syria or Ukraine, not another Putin's wife or, at worst, not a Nobel laureate, then your life is unlikely to seem interesting and attractive. In our world, the human threshold of sensitivity is so high that emotions can only be triggered by explicit scenes, explosions, murders or tragedies. As a result, for a short "waw-effect" you need to spend colossal efforts, work hard to bring attention a little closer, become interesting to others, fill your life with events and impressions that are so desirable. Indeed, in fact, new impressions and emotions are the same energy as gasoline for a car. Energy that allows you to live and strive for something. Man has always wanted one thing - "bread and circuses." And so, in order to get this cherished "spectacle" that maintains interest in life, very many are ready to pay huge amounts of money and spend a lot of effort, while a simple switch of attention from external space to internal space will be sufficient. And as soon as it turns out, the fun begins. Alternative sources of impressions gradually become available, a new flow of energy opens up. And now, your car is already capable of driving not only on gasoline.
As you can see, everything is quite simple. If you stop worrying about how to surprise others, pay attention to yourself, then seemingly insignificant little things will open from a new, unexplored side. And those changes that take place in the inner world can easily overshadow any impression from the outside. A whole universe is hidden in our body, full of its secrets and mysteries. And to solve them is not an excruciating pleasure. The taste of food, the light of a lamp, the smell of a flower, the trill of a nightingale, the touch of a loved one - this is a mass of sensations into which you can plunge deeper and deeper. And now, if, for everything, you shift the focus of attention from external objects to your inner world, then an incredible spectacle opens, filled with a wide variety of colors of impressions, and there are no financial costs, and less and less effort is spent on switching every time.
Looking inside oneself is introspection, which allows, simply observing the sensations, to be in the center of the brightest and most diverse events. It turns out with minimal effort - maximum effect.
And so, according to the standard schemes learned from parents, neighbors or the media, in order to arrange a holiday of body and soul, you need money, or better a lot of money, or even better an endless stream of money. And to get them, you need to work, and to get more, you need to work a lot, and there is never a lot of money, so you need to work forever, but when you get the cherished and desired impressions is not known. Perhaps, as soon as you can acquire the cherished toy, the thirst for impressions will dry up or will not be enough. It turns out that in pursuit of a bright and catchy exterior, the best years pass by. And these are the years when the body is able to sense the maximum number of various signals. And being a deep old man, many are able to remember only the gray working days, which merged into one, well, a couple of vacations abroad. And since they used intoxicants there all the time, then here too the impressions are only from the stories of friends and relatives. So, the enjoyment of life can be obtained in an easier way. It is enough to switch attention from simple, imposed schemes, to new ones, focused on what is happening inside, and not outside. A person who is able to switch from external to internal need only close their eyes and immerse themselves in the world of sensations. As long as there is a body and it is able to feel something more than sciatica or a hernia, you need to take advantage of the moment. Feelings, emotions and feelings are what fills a person. Makes him alive. This is the energy of human life. And in fact, it makes no difference where to draw this energy from.
If there is no strength or opportunity to get impressions from outside. Discover alternative sources. Inside everyone there is a storehouse of feelings and emotions that can be accessed if you pay your attention to them.
Open yourself, know yourself and be happy!
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