2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Most modern women consider prosperity to be one of the most important goals in creating a family, and it is very justified. But, oddly enough, at the same time they completely lose sight of the fact that the family is not the institution of society that brings only material benefits, and in large quantities. With this approach, the attitude begins to resemble the business community, where making money is the main goal. As practice shows, such alliances can be quite successful, but only in this direction, in others, partners, as a rule, are completely indifferent to each other. And a woman has an extremely negative attitude to indifference to herself. And then women remember that they also really want love, which they all understand in their own way.
Some women really want to be weak, and a man who should be next to them is imagined as such a strong man and a deliverer. Imagine a boat in which a weak woman sits at the oars, and her desire for a man to appear in the boat and start rowing in her place. And everything would be fine, but when this happens, it turns out that he is used to rowing in his own way and there is still a risk that it is not at all in the direction she wanted. (But these are trifles. Any woman at a certain moment can explain to a man that he is wrong, and if she is not corrected she will drop him out of the boat. But the result is again not the one she expected.) When a woman is asked what she will do while a man is rowing, the fair sex most often answer "I will love him." At the same time, the question of what a man puts into this concept is not considered at all. There is a very clear and simple definition of love - this is when a person experiences a large number of positive, joyful, pleasant emotions. But people are extremely rarely, in fact, interested in their partners, and what he or she can deliver these emotions.
As a rule, women prefer to independently determine themselves in this situation and follow their usual scenario, which, in most cases, ultimately leads to conflicts. To solve them, later, it takes a lot of effort and time, and, in half of the cases, such behavior of women leads to a break in relations. And after a while, the same situation is repeated, but with another man.
Let me tell you a little secret that a man really likes to try to do something pleasant for a woman who loves him, but precisely in his understanding of this feeling. (This is about security, too) If you ask a man - "How to love you?", Then most likely he will not answer anything intelligible. One of the simplest ways for an attentive woman to determine how a man understands the word "love" (we are, of course, about a man in love) is to see how he himself manifests this feeling in relation to her. (kisses, hugs or praise, there are many options). Using in a relationship exactly those actions that a man actually perceives as a manifestation of love will allow a woman, without resorting to conflicts, to solve the tasks that she sets for herself and her partner, within the framework of their relationship.
It is not the ability to explain that leads to misunderstanding, but the reluctance to ask creates conflict.
Be more attentive to those who are next to you and your life will become much happier.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
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