What Can Ruin A Relationship Between A Man And A Woman

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

Almost all people need verbal communication. In other words, a person needs to talk to someone. Everyone, this need for communication, is expressed in different ways. Someone needs a lot, while others may be content with just a few phrases a day. It depends both on the inner state and character of the person himself, and on the situation in which the conversation is supposed to be. Speech itself, as a second signaling system, is the main distinguishing feature of a person from an animal. The skills of verbal communication in people can be developed in completely different ways, while, as practice shows, everyone can talk and convey their thoughts.

In the process of relationships between a man and a woman, communication, namely conversations, play a very important role. Sometimes people do not notice how they begin to use these moments to their detriment. In communication, someone always prefers to listen, and someone to speak. It is believed that women have more need for verbal communication than men, but there are exceptions to every rule. Quite often, women express dissatisfaction with the fact that men do not carefully or reluctantly listen to them. The fact is that ladies forget that communication is primarily a dialogue. In some cases, on the part of the fair sex, their speech activity towards a man resembles an attempt at rape, because in fact the conversation is a voluntary matter. Often, women tend to take on the role of leading the conversation, (this is not about quarrels or scandals), not paying attention to the fact that a man may be completely uninterested in his topic. As a rule, the result of such attempts and the imposition of communication on the part of the woman is the irritation of the man and the dissatisfaction of the woman herself with the reaction of her partner. And as you know, the accumulation of such "wonderful" experiences as irritation and discontent does not lead to an improvement and growth of relations.

Women should pay attention to the moment their men are interested in a conversation on this topic, almost any woman knows how to intrigue her partner, thereby arousing his interest in the topic of conversation. It often happens that women create an overabundance of information in a conversation that simply cannot be assimilated by a man. If a woman sets herself the goal of always being a winner in conversations with a man (this can be not only disputes about important things), since it seems to her that this makes her more attractive in the eyes of a partner, then most likely she seeks to simply drag the "blanket of communication" aside their interests. Which is unlikely to have a positive effect on the relationship.

Men also do not always use verbal communication effectively. Often, with the help of a conversation with a woman and proving his innocence to her (even if it is not about relationships or common interests), a man wants to assert himself. His arguments are needed first of all by himself. A striking example is the cases when a man tells a woman about some of his insignificant achievements, and at the same time does not give her the opportunity to insert a couple of words into the dialogue. And if the woman nevertheless interrupts him, or changes the subject, then the man begins to express claims referring to the fact that the woman allegedly does not hear him. Although in reality it is not so important for him to be heard as to speak out. Such a position of men will also not have a beneficial effect on relationships.

In communication, especially when it comes to the relationship between a man and a woman, it is very important to maintain a balance. Almost everyone is very good at talking heart to heart, because from such communication it becomes warm.

Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.