2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
It has long been no secret to anyone that communication in most cases is based on manipulation. People, willingly or unwittingly, resort to this method of communication in order to quickly get what they need, or what they want. In relations between a man and a woman, this method of communication is very widespread. Sometimes people themselves do not notice how they become manipulators, or, on the contrary, those who are exposed to such influence.
In some cases, this type of communication fully justifies itself, since it is easier for one of the partners. In other words, someone becomes the leader, and someone becomes the follower. This often has very little to do with leadership because it does not imply taking responsibility. It's just that one does what the other says, without requiring explanations and without figuring out the ultimate goal. That is, it acts in accordance with the interests or desires (which do not always make sense) of the partner or partner.
The manipulator in a pair can be either a man or a woman. But in fairness, it is worth noting that in certain situations a woman is superior to a man in this skill. The girls' fathers understand me well. Using the skills that were acquired in childhood, some women successfully use love manipulation already in adulthood.
It usually looks like this: “Can you do it? You love me, don't you? " And of course a man will strive to fulfill the desire (even absurd) of his woman. Especially at the beginning of a relationship, when any man wants to show as many signs of attention to his lady as possible. But after some time, the man comes to understand that it is not necessary to fulfill all the whims of his chosen one, without exception, in order to confirm her words about his love for her. Especially if they (whims) are constant. Then women, realizing that this method no longer works, move on to the next. Phrase: “You didn't do it? You do not love me?" in most cases, it is a kind of adapter to manipulation with the help of a sense of guilt. Naturally, such a formulation of the question can encourage a man to take some action, but in his heart he will consider her simply dishonest.
In the future, events can develop in different ways, it will depend on the character of the man, and on the position that the woman herself will take. Variants of female behavior in the development of a situation can be different from the transition to theatrical dramatization, to direct pressure on a man using a sense of guilt. In most cases, such situations end in conflict. And if such events occur with a regular frequency, then most likely, everything will not be very good in the relationship, to put it mildly.
The abundance of manipulation makes the relationship toxic, and therefore people cannot be happy in them. And it is natural for a person to avoid what makes him unhappy, which is why in such cases, men often interrupt communication with women who abuse the manipulation of love.
It is unlikely that anyone will succeed in avoiding manipulation in the relationship between a man and a woman, but still you should not use this communication technique too often, especially when referring to love.
Live with joy! Anton Chernykh.
Recommended:
Love And Sex With A Schizoid Woman. Instructions For Men Who Love Reinforced Concrete Barriers
Dear “lovers of difficult”, learn to walk through walls. You will need these skills in a relationship with a schizoid woman. At first, she will let you close for a little while in the phase of falling in love and show you her such bizarre inner world that you will understand that this woman is fatal and unforgettable and you have to be a complete nerd to lose this.
You Fell For "love" Manipulations Of A Man So As Not To Take Responsibility For A Woman
In this article, I will describe the most common manipulations by men who are not ready to bear almost any obligations to a woman (we are talking about women who are focused on serious relationships, and not on sex "for health"). If a relationship is built on mutual love, then a man will show this love for a woman not only in words, but also in deeds:
The Ideal Woman Of Russia In The XXI Century. My Survey Destroyed All The Myths About The Ideal Woman From Gloss. Just Imagine What The Ideal Woman Means In The Opinion Of Men
The ideal woman of Russia in the XXI century. My poll shattered all the myths about the ideal glossy woman. Unfortunately, there is no single image of an ideal woman: it is always adapted for a specific period in the history of a particular people, for that specific social model, social role that a particular woman plays or wants to play.
Types Of Love And Their Difference: Passion, Falling In Love, Love Addiction, Absolute, Mature Love
Love … A word familiar from childhood. Everyone understands that when you are loved is good, but when you are deprived of love, it is bad. Only everyone understands it in their own way. Often this word is used to refer to something that turns out to be not quite love or not love at all.
TWO KINDS OF LOVE IN RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN
Love … Spring … Butterflies in the stomach … How wonderful it is to fall in love! Fall in love at any age! How wonderful it is to carry love through the years and obstacles and again fall in love with the person with whom a long, interesting joint journey began.
