2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Dear “lovers of difficult”, learn to walk through walls. You will need these skills in a relationship with a schizoid woman.
At first, she will let you close for a little while in the phase of falling in love and show you her such bizarre inner world that you will understand that this woman is fatal and unforgettable and you have to be a complete nerd to lose this. Thin, delicate, sensitive, sometimes it seems incredibly fragile, almost like a snowflake melting in your strong man's palm. O! You will feel like a knight next to her, a macho, called in her life to protect her from the hardships of the outside world.
This closeness of Her fantastic world will intoxicate you forever and now you are ready to believe that it will always be so sweet. But this short distance is designed for a couple of weeks, in some individuals of this species for a couple of months, and in very rare representatives of the schizoid type even for a couple of years, but this is rather rare.
And then you find yourself in a complete splitting of consciousness, because, all of a sudden, for no apparent reason (but it only seems to you, and she certainly knows why and why) the gates of the paradise inner world of a schizoid woman will close tightly and here you are you will feel like a ram at the new gate, knocking your forehead against cold cast-iron forged metal. Don't you understand what happened at all? I explain, if instead of your tender, fragile and.. and as it seemed even a warm woman is now "cold reinforced concrete wall", then congratulations: you managed to scare her with something. And the best thing you can do is to move away from the gates of this citadel and from there, almost in a whisper (or send a short letter), ask: Why did I frighten you so much? She will appreciate it and, perhaps, after a while, she will again open up to you.. But here you need not push, but wait. Stand still and do not move. And if you are very lucky after that, she will call you herself and ask, as if nothing had happened: "How are you?" Here you need to squeeze all your passions and hunger for communication with her into a fist, and let her herself freely approach you at her pace. Slowly.
This is another test, dear men. I am with understanding to you. But the prize is worth it. Stand and do not move or even breathe. If you rush to meet her again, everything is lost. The door will be slammed in front of your nose again. Why? Yes, because it's scary when something rushes at you with outstretched hands. What if you can strangle it like that? She is most afraid of strangulation. In our language, she has a strong absorption anxiety. She is afraid of invasions, intrusions, penetrations, or whatever else it is called in your language … Therefore, only She can be the initiator of rapprochement. You are not allowed to do this. Because she interprets all sorts of jerks in her direction as a danger to life.
Whoever fished with a line, he understands what I mean.. We must not twitch and shout loudly, so as not to scare the fish. Behave like a fisherman. While you are waiting for the fish to be hooked, just meditate.. breathe quietly and deeply.. and calmness.. only calmness.
But if you have patience and love for her, then the reward that you can receive if you earn the trust of such a woman is the highest degree of devotion, friendship and loyalty. Perhaps one cannot find a more devoted schizoid woman. And if you suddenly decide to be jealous of the pillars, she will leave you without hesitation. She will perceive this as control and encroachment on her personal space and her personal boundaries. Therefore, guys with no personal boundaries and prone to merging (you are me, I am you) do not waste your time, go to other women with other quirks.
Periodically, during moments of enlightenment, she will reward you with that same degree of higher level of intimacy, provided that you are completely safe and guaranteed autonomy after coming out of emotional intimacy.
She never sleeps with the first comer, she always needs a long "tackle" in comparison with others (others, of course, can also increase their worth in this way, but this one is sincerely afraid and studies).
In sex, everything is the same as in the emotional space. If you obsessively demand sex from her every day, she will "curtail the procreation program" to a hard "no", although at the same time most likely she will not leave you, since this is scary: all new and new men are a disaster.. all over again..)). She will simply build a reinforced concrete wall in your bed and will fight back for a while, and then she can say straight on the forehead: “I don't want you anymore, leave me alone. Better to scratch my back or tickle behind my ear. But no sex."
Do you know why? Because she always has a lot of everything? And she has a lot of you too. She is quickly exhausted in close contact, so it is very important for such a woman to give respites, pauses in communication, to interrupt periodically contact, leaving her alone. Don't remind her of sex now. Better yet, wait until she herself wants you.. What's not to like? Because how can you not want for a long time? What do you mean.. She can be incredibly sexy.. you remember how it was at first. But something went wrong.. What? The elephant in the china shop trampled on its favorite cups and crystal vases. And she sees this elephant in you.
Therefore, when approaching a schizoid woman, it is advisable to take into account the nuances of her character structure. And if you manage not to rush about in a panic while she is there behind the Chinese wall restoring trust in you after you showed her your dark side, and is going to your bed like the first time on a date, then it will be worth it. Moreover, you had time to get hungry for sure. But it’s better to eat delicacies less often than to chew the same food every day. This is her opinion about sex and intimacy.
If you managed not to become an obsessive sexually anxious maniac, reproaching her for every refusal to have sex, if you managed to build security and trust, then you probably will not find a better partner. But if you showed your aggression in a form dangerous for her and directed at it (insults, reproaches, devaluation and assault), then you will never glue this vase. The confidence of a schizoid woman is not restored, no matter how hard you try. So there is no way to “strait”. Better treat her like a woman who was very unlucky as a child with her mother. It was there that her basic confidence in the world was undermined even before she even learned to speak. Schizoid trauma is preverbal. Therefore, she may not remember anything. But the unconscious controls its protective functions. She does not have a sense of basic security and the topics that she most often raises in conversation with you are about her personal safety, well, or is silent and hides in a shell, if she has not yet reached a psychotherapist and has not learned to say that her worried. Rather, you will get just something like a goldfish. It shines brightly, but just take it out of its usual environment - it will suffocate and die.
Oh, I forgot to warn you: if you suddenly cross the line when her fear already borders on animal instinct, then this woman will show such force of rage and become so aggressive that you cannot even suspect that a panther is hiding inside this fragile creature. Here it is better to run away, save your skin and never again catch her eye..)
The motto of men who have tied their fate with a schizoid woman: patience, expectation and respect for your partner's personal boundaries.
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