2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43
Recently, I have seen too many posts about frank, deliberate fakap of psychotherapists. I know that this has long been a multiplication table for many, but I still want to remind you of some points.
The therapist cannot work outside the professional community. Rather, reality quietly whispers that it may very well, but it would be better if he was in it. At least because there is an ethics committee in the community that you can turn to if the therapist is completely out of his therapeutic shores. Ideally, for the community to be under the supervision of a European community, then the likelihood of compliance with ethics will be many times higher.
Certification. Ideally. And yes, the therapist may still be on the way to his own. This is normal, because this process is not the fastest and most energy-consuming process. It is not normal when the mysterious "I do not consider it necessary to discuss this" answers you to a direct question. You can, right at the same moment, effectively take your purse in your hand and leave the office.
Supervision. It must be mandatory and must be regular. This is a guarantee that if the therapist misses something in your story or takes it too close to his heart, a kind supervisor will point it out to him.
The psychotherapist cannot have a double relationship with the client. In the analytical paradigm, it is so. I think that a cup of coffee will not greatly affect the format of psychological diagnostics and counseling, but in the format of psychotherapy it is impossible. Simply because if you already have a relationship with the therapist (working, friendly, loving), how can he remain in a neutral position and look at everything from the outside? No way, right.
Provocative psychotherapy is not really psychotherapy at all, sorry. No, I have read and heard about it and even a lot of positive reviews. She takes "weak", challenges. The problem is that not everyone can answer such a challenge. Just like not everyone is able to survive it.
I once watched a recording of a marathon of one great and well-known allegedly psychotherapist who, with good intentions (of course, who doubts) forced a man to undress in a group. Well, that's how he challenged him. And I immediately remembered stories about kindergartens, in which the same kind and for the good of acting teachers put children naked on the windowsill, because they did not finish their soup / did not want to sleep / cried too loudly. Provocative psychotherapy is pure retraumatization. It's as if you had a fresh suture after the operation, and you would be given a massage on it, well, because you need to learn how to endure the pain. It is as if a person who has experienced physical violence would be deliberately raped over and over again, so that at some point he would “soar” and say “enough is enough!”. Sorry for this harsh comparison.
The psychotherapist is not a god. He can be arbitrarily understanding, accepting and brilliant in the accuracy of interpretations. But he must remember that he is not omnipotent and can be wrong and not understand something. If your therapist is the new Jesus of his direction, I can only congratulate you on the opportunity to compensate your narcissistic radical about him)
Errors are possible in every work. Well, simply because the one who does nothing at all is not mistaken. The work of a psychotherapist is no exception, because therapists are also people, they also make mistakes) But a good therapist is distinguished by the ability to see and accept this mistake.
Take care of yourself)
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