I Choose To Sing "my Song"

2024 Author: Harry Day | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 15:43

After watching the final of the Voice-Children 2 contest, I noted that both finalists sang very well. But I listened to the song the winner sang for at least two more days. She was constantly spinning in my head …

Crazy (Going crazy - Aerosmith)

I began to think: voting for the first place is carried out using SMS voting from God knows what people …

That is, the girls could not influence this. Rather, they could only sing in one way !!!

Remembering this victorious singing, I felt that Alina simply "burst into" the process of her singing … she did not even sing, she lived this song with her whole body, with all the timbres of her voice, she enjoyed the fact that she was just singing. And it seemed to me that she did it very easily.

I thought about how this method of performance affects Success in what you do and decided to test my hypothesis. I began to watch such contests, finals, where the winner is determined by a large circle of spectators, which is difficult to control, which can only be influenced by the person himself and his contribution to this action. And in my opinion the winners were distinguished by incredible lightness, the absence of disturbing thoughts about failure and the ability to surrender their whole existence to what you do.

God alone knows how people gather for trainings … After all, this is also the territory that we have little control over, especially when you are just starting your journey. Many people make promises, but sometimes not everyone makes it to the training. Of course, psychologists I hope will understand that sometimes this is how the clients work out resistances, or that the coach may not be in a resourceful state right now, or the stars did not stand up right at that moment..

I remembered how I was assembling my first personal growth group, with what difficulty I was looking for clients. And somehow she did everything tensely, with effort, fear of the unknown, inexperience. And that time the group did not meet.

And after a while, when I felt with every fiber of my soul that I really want to gather and lead such a group. Feeling the strength in myself that I can do this and really want to help those who need it and are ready to work, everything happened as if by itself. I easily called clients, made mailing lists, enthusiastically told my friends. And the group got together. Rather, I easily assembled a group.

So what's behind this ease? Great strength. I'm not afraid to say that this is love for what you do. Your business is what you love to do. That business for which you are ready to study a lot, work, fall and rise again, grow, take risks, look for your audience, your clients, customers …

When you are full and even overflowing, and if you don’t share, don’t give, then you will simply be “torn apart” by your fullness.

And in order not to explode, I choose to sing "my song" …